Baby`s development in month 19

Every child develops differently and learns new skills at their own individual pace. The average age for a child to begin talking is anywhere from 8-24 months. Continue to foster a love for learning and expose your child to learning experiences. Reading to your child several times throughout the day will increase their vocabulary. Children naturally enjoy learning and you can help them by not pushing or criticizing your child. As easy as it is, try not to compare your child to other children. More than likely, your child enjoys saying `no`. She can follow simple directions and enjoys naming objects that she sees in pictures and books.

During mealtime, expect a mess with your nineteen month old. Although she is doing better, she still does not have enough control to completely eliminate a mess. If you are worried about the mess on the floor, place a sheet on the floor under the highchair. You can shake it out after each meal and wash it when it becomes dirty. Bowls with sides make eating easier because she can push the foods against the sides. A spoon with a chunky short handle will be the easiest for your child's small hands. Serving your child's food at the same time the rest of the family is eating will help establish a mealtime schedule. Your toddler will also see how you eat and will begin to develop table manners.

Your child may have a security blanket, stuffed animal or other object. Many children claim objects and hold possession to their favorite item for a long time-usually until someone makes fun of them later in life. For many children, their security item offers a `friend` and they share everything together. Some children are not able to leave their security item at home when they go somewhere. You dot need to take the item away or make fun of your child. Allow your child to enjoy his `friend` and with time he will realize that the item can not solve any of his problems.

Your child learns by imitating what you do. If you don't want your child standing on chairs, don't let him see you do it. However, if you show respect and love for others, he will too. Enjoy your toddler during this time. Of course some days are better than others, but every day offers new chances for learning.

Developmental Milestones - 19 Months Old

Physical

Runs
Can kick a ball
Can throw a ball
Tries to catch
Likes to dance
Likes to swing

Intellectual

Likes to say `no`
Follows simple directions
May point to body parts
Learning new words
May imitate animal sounds
Enjoys dressing up
Can brush teeth

Emotional

Likes to cuddle
Prefers to play with adults over other children
May have a security blanket or toy

Age Appropriate Toys

Books
Musical instruments
Building materials
Art supplies
Pretend play
Dress up clothes
Balls
Ride on toys
Interactive educational toys
Dolls
Cars and trucks
Outdoor play toy

Comments:

Comments 1-25 of about 24 for month 19
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atrip1 - Friday, 1 Aug
For all of us who�s still carrying around that baby fat, join me in my quest to lose weight! So I thought of something cool for us mothers who have already had our babies to do together. When we were pregnant, we had so much fun looking forward to the following week and complaining to each other about this and that and being hormonal and bitchy...good times. But now that we�re not pregnant anymore, a lot of women think the site is not the same anymore and perhaps has gotten a little boring and a lot of them are leaving =( so I figured why not keep the site interesting for us non-pregnant women and lose our baby fat together! Remember those belly bumps we used to post every week? Well let�s do the same...but this time watching those belly bumps shrink!! Since we have blogs now, it�ll be simple. We can use that one blog and dedicate it specifically for our weight lost journey together. (I have a little example on my page but of course fix it up however you want!) It�ll also be extremely encouraging...for me I know it will be. We can help each other and give each other tips and suggestions. So here�s the plan in a nutshell...this Sunday post your picture of you now along with how much you weigh and your desired weight (goal). Every Sunday report back in and tell us if you lost any weight for that week. If you�re seeing significance differences, post pictures! Show off that mommy figure! If any of you are interested in doing this, I would loooove to know because I want to keep up with you and check your blogs and progress and really do this together!

crazyeights - Thursday, 10 Jul
My husband lost his job today. This ones gonna hurt. If anyone out there is from the Chicago area and knows of ANY sales positions available please message my page. He has mostly been in industrial sales but has enough experience in other areas to make a change. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Its-Chelle - Friday, 4 Jul
my son is 19 mo today!

busybeemom - Friday, 20 Jun
Hi ladies, I have been sewing with a friend. Her and I have put a countless number of hours of resaerch into the one size diaper we made. It is for newborns thru to potty trainers. We are really happy with our pattern but I am looking for feed back. Cloth diapering mama's or not please tell me what you think. I have more on a blog on my page.

devinsmom - Saturday, 31 May
Does/Has anyone here suffer from anxiety attacks?? If so, leave me a private message.

beebeefox - Monday, 28 Apr
lisar: breastfed baby poop is so unpredictable. your little one is probably fine. if it continues to worry you give your pediatrician a call to ease your fears.

lisar - Saturday, 26 Apr
Ladies, wondering if any of you can shed some insight. A week ago my six week old started getting mucus in his poop. Within a few days it became green and more liquidy. He is breastfed. I have gone on a completely hypoallergenic diet over the past week & this hasn't helped so I'm figuring it's probably not allergies. He's been to the dr.-no blood in the stool, no fever, acting normally, eating normally. They are now begining to run all sorts of other tests but as of yet have no answer. Someone mentioned hindmilk/foremilk imbalance to me so over the past day and a half I've been having him nurse twice from the same side before switching. At first he seemed to be improving, the first couple poops after were yellower than they'd been in days, but now they are back to green. Does anyone have any knowledge about this? How long does it take to make a difference if this is the problem? I hate to put him thru more tests or on a medication he doesn't need if its a breastfeeding issue. Please message me if you can help. Thanks so much!

ikmg80 - Wednesday, 16 Apr
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lisar - Thursday, Mar 27th
Anyone ever have a bad fall with baby 7 have all turn out ok? I fell down my hardwood steps (about 5-6 steps) holding my 12 day old baby on Monday and I am sick inside to the point that I cannot think of anything else. We called 911 and he had a CAT scan and neck x-ray which were both normal but I keep thinking that maybe the CAT scan was done too soon to show a developing injury (bleed). Also about an hour after the fall his one eye started tearing up and leaking like a blocked tear duct which the dr. said it probably was. She gave me some antibiotic ointment to put in it. I gave him 2 doses of the ointment & his eye started to get red & swollen so on the advice of the pharmacist I stopped it. He woke up today with his eye completely better in every way. i know a blocked tear duct doesn't heal that quickly & with only 2 doses of antibiotic I don't see how an infection could have cleared up, so I'm convinced that there must have been some kind of injury sustained by the fall. Anyone with any similar experiences would be so appreciated, please message me on my page. Thanks.

shathon - Thursday, Mar 27th
Joshua Mauldin, The dad who put baby in microwave oven for 20 secondsm, gets 25-year sentence with a chance of parole at 12 years! Can you believe this???? This is soooo horrible. That poor baby girl. He should have gotten life. If you want to read the whole story, just google his name. Its all over the news here in Texas.

gem77 - Tuesday, Mar 25th
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Jamiekid - Sunday, Mar 9th
If any of you mommies out there use pampers products but don't collect the gifts-to-grow points and would like to donate them instead of throwing them away please, please message me privately with the code found inside your diaper or wipes package (even the points that expire March 2008). I am trying to collect them at the moment, but the collection is going so slow! Thanks! Jaim

girlwitstyle - Tuesday, Mar 4th
Hi, I'm from Month 0. Does anyone have any experience with Hypospadias in infant boys? My 1 week old boy has this condition (it's a birth defect) and we are wondering if it's something we should be very worried about or something easy to fix? Thanks!

whitbug123 - Friday, Feb 29th
i have started potty training my daughter and am new to this part of the site seeing as though i am 9 months pregnant and due in like 2 weeks...and i was wondering does anyone have any advice for potty training??any thing that work really well..am i starting to early??

Claires-Momma - Thursday, Feb 7th
Hi Mommies, Do any of you with babies around this age have a newborn? My daughter will be about this age when we have our 2nd baby, so I am just looking for any advice about how she may react, things we can do to help her adjust, etc. Thank you!

welchmomx5 - Tuesday, Feb 5th
Good Morning Ladies! I posted my story about living with Postpartum Depression on several month by month pages the other day, and received such a positive response, that I feel that I should post it to the rest of the pages, just in case someone else may benefit from it. Keep in mind, Postpartum Depression does not just occur right after giving birth - it can occur anytime during the first year after having your baby. Thank you for listening. Hello ladies: Some of you may remember me. I was welchmom, and stopped posting on here in December. It seems I got offended when several people didn't like me or angel4 commenting on sad stories in the news. Well, little did I know, I was on the verge of a mental meltdown, and that is probably why I overreacted. I did not realize it, but I was suffering from Postpartum Depression, or in my case, another Postpartum mood disorder that I had never even heard of, Postpartum OCD. Now that I feel soooo much better, and after reading several of the comments from yesterday, I felt the need to get on here and sort of tell my story, because if it helps one person out there that feels like they must be losing their mind, then it is worth telling. I have never experienced PPD until now. I had 3 children prior to my pregnancy with our twin boys, and never had anything more than the baby blues. This time around, of course, I felt overwhelmed - who wouldn't with an 11 year old, 8 year old, 2 year old and now twin newborns to tend to. I had myself fooled for a while, that I could get it all done, but as time went on, instead of things getting easier, they got harder. I found myself staying up late (2:30am-3:30am) just so I could get work around the house done, which just made be more sleep deprived. My anxiety level was crippling, but what sent me to the doctor was the constant fear of my kids being hurt. I have always been a very protective parent - kids can't play outside unless someone is with them, etc - but this was way different. What began playing constantly in my head were images of bad things happening to them. I now know that these are referred to as intrusive thoughts. The mind of someone with Postpartum OCD, has repetitive thoughts that won't go away, and cause anxiety and panic attacks. Of course, it is normal to want to protect your children and worry about them, but when it is happening 24/7 and it consumes you, it is time to reach out and get help. I had been reading way too many horrific stories in the news, which then had the OCD part of me overanalyzing my thoughts. 'Well, if I'm picturing these things happening, am I going crazy? Will I hurt my kids? Is that how Andrea Yates felt?' Let me reassure you, this is not what Andrea Yates had. She had Postpartum Psychosis, which is a completely different mood disorder, which rears its ugly head within the first 6 weeks of giving birth - you believe the images are real. Anyway, to try to make a long story short, I called my doctor the second I didn't feel right, and was started on a low dose of Prozac. The three weeks it took to get in my system were hell. I had such terrible anxiety that I didn't want to be left alone, which thank God for a supportive hubby, MIL, and church family. This was very hard, as I am a very independent person, one who would much rather do for someone than have someone do for them. I have been seeing a therapist, which is quite helpful - I recommend it to anyone!=) Anyway, I now understand why it isn't a good idea to talk about such horrible things, particularly on this sight. In fact, I try not to read much of the news these days - it IS depressing. Anyway, I just wanted to share this with you all, and also give you a website to check out, if you think this describes you: www.ppdsupportpage.com. You can read journals, post questions, and it really has been very helpful and informative. I am mommyx5 on there, if you want to read my posts. I have a daily journal, but my original post is under introductions. This whole ordeal has taught me so much, and I just feel the need to reach out to tell everyone that if you feel this way, you are not alone, you just have to ask for help. I also feel that more needs to be done to give mothers this information, so if they feel this way, they can reassured that they aren't 'nuts', it is normal, and you don't have to continue to suffer. Thanks for listening. I will have to create a new page, as everything has been deleted, and my old passwords don't work, but I guess I am back for good! =)

kel - Wednesday, Dec 19th
CALLING ALL MOMMIES Hey moms I need your help for my daughter to win a $500 baby shopping spree. You can vote as many times as you won't and she is baby # 157 the voting ends on the 21st the direct link without going through all 218 babies is http://www.993thebeat.com/pages/SantaBabyPoll.html put the curser back in the go to page and hit enter and you can vote agin and again. If you would like to look through all the babies the link is www.wpap.com then go to santa babies. Thank you again, Kelly

AmandaZ - Wednesday, Dec 12th
my baby is 12 weeks old today, I breastfeed her but while Im at work my mom gives her two small servings of formula. she was having some belly issues with gas and pains early on so my doctor perscribed neutramagen for her. Her belly problems have passed and although she doesn't get very much formula at all Im wondering if I need to switch her back to a regular formula...is there any advantages to leaving her on the neutramagen?? or disadvantages?? this is my 4th baby and Ive always breastfeed, my ohters didnt have formula or bottles so this formula feeding is new to me...any help would be great. Thanks, Amanda

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clover - Wednesday, Aug 15th
ginaNaddyson-i had that problem when my son was born bc they had given me the formula with iron in it, i switched to Enfamil Gentle Ease and it worked good, had no more stomache problems...

ginaNaddyson - Sunday, Jul 22nd
I AM DESPERATE!! has any experienced mothers out there delt with this? i am going back to work in 20 days. my baby is just over a month old. i am b/f and trying to suppliment w/formula b/c she will have to be formula fed during the day while I work. (i do not have an oppertunity to pump at work plus i don't think i can pump the amt i need). She is taking the bottle fine, but later she seems to have stomach issues. she grunts, strains, arches her back, scrunches her legs and screams. I blamed it on the formula and switched from Emphimil lipid to parents choice version of gentlese. I sm giving her 1 bottle now in AM and and going to try 1 more in the PM this week. Has anyone went from breast to formula atleast part-time? Any suggestions? Please leave a message on VIP page, I am going to post on multiple months. as I said I am desperate!!

BeenThere - Sunday, Jun 10th
I would like to let all of you ladies know that if you ever need an opinion or advice on something or just someone to talk to that I have been there and done that with just about everything pertaining to what some or most of you are going through now. I have been a teenage mom giving birth right after my 17th birthday with no one knowing I was even pregnant until 8 months along and without medical care. Married at that age to an abusive drug addict who raped me and forced me to have 2 abortions and almost killed me several times before I left. I had another baby at just a couple of months before my 20th birthday while married to this same man. I finally left and got divorced at the age of 21 and became a single mother of a 2 year old and 5 year old. I have medical issues that have left me disabled and in a lot of pain. I married again 3 years later to a very verbally abusive man and was married to him for almost 11 years. I am now 38 years old and am finally with a wonderful man and we just had my 3rd baby after a long and difficult pregnancy. I was diagnosed with herpes during this pregnancy during the initial screening which proved the fact that my husband was cheating on me. I have had natural birth with no drugs. An induction and an epidural. I was in an abusive household growing up with an alcoholic step father who molested me. My mother is no longer living as she died from cancer right after her 43rd birthday.

titi - Monday, Jun 4th
My 19 month boy wont eat, any ideas to increase his appetite?

zgirl - Sunday, May 20th
well I am glad to hear that Jessica

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