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kater (288.5 days ago)
if you had a very painful labor, some of the problem could be that you are very nervous about anything going on ;`down their`. try getting your partner to go slow, maybe start with a massage to relax you, and as the other suggestion-use HEAPS of lube. speak to your partner, if you tell him what feels comfortable and pleasurable, he is less likely to hurt you. and keep in mind, if he loves you, he probably feels absolutely terrible about causing you so much pain
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katsue (292.1 days ago)
I agree with mommacrstl- take it slow and use some lube. It was uncomfortable for a couple months after the 6 weeks for me, but my hubby is the best and was fine to do things just for me- for the first little while we just got him in me and then he sat there. I felt like a virgin again! But, it worked. Just take things slow. Another aspect is the emtional part. You are so drained physically and mentally and emontionally that it`s daunting to make love. So, in all aspects take it slow!
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mommacrstl (294.2 days ago)
after 6 weeks and my new bc was in I had sex with my husband no pain and it was better b/c we didn`t have a basketball between us :) thisis my 3rd child and I`ve never felt pain having sex the 6 weeks after birth. My suggestion is to take it slow and easy, lots of lube especially if you`re breast feeding ( it drys you out down there) go slow enjoy it get a sitter or family member to watch your new little one so you don`t feel rushed :) Goodluck
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tto (296.1 days ago)
I think at least 2 months maybe more. Enjoy other tomantic activities instead, perhaps.
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Ady-and-Maylies-Momma (297.4 days ago)
I had sex again before it was supposed to be go time. I cried the whole time and sadly went to bed with an ice pack on!! Almost 5 months after having baby, it still hurts...getting a little better each time, but still hurts. I hope that things are better for you. If you want to ask your doctor about it, don`t be embarassed. He/she should be able to help a little better than me! :) best of luck!
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