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softkitty (243.8 days ago)
I agree with all who commented on thus far. You did what you felt was right in the interest of your unborn child.

ktb (245.1 days ago)
If you are not living with him it is not a big deal. You need to provide for yourself and your baby. At this point he is on a need to know basis. And what you do with your life is not something he needs to know. When the baby is born what happens with your son is his business and you should inform him of decisions that impact your child. How could he be upset if you are providing for the needs of your son.

summerisis (245.2 days ago)
I think that I`m confused. If I understand correctly, you`ve applied for government assistance because you cannot depend on your `Sam` to provide. If that`s correct, I don`t see a need for you to tell him anything about your plans for supporting your child because 1) if he DOES provide then you won`t need the government assistance and 2) if he does NOT provide then you will need the assistance and he`ll be responsible to the government. Either way, I don`t think that you should be concerned with him or his feelings -- stability and your baby are your priorities right now. Hasn`t this man already threatened to take the child from you and leave the country? You telling him your intentions merely gives him a means of planning his escape route better.



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