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alex76 (266.5 days ago)
Hi I should add also, i have a sister and brother, when I asked my Mom whats better she said `I love you all the same BUT a boy is your son till he meets his wife, a daughter`s you`re daughter all your life`

alex76 (266.5 days ago)
hi I actually cried when I found out 1st time around, it doesnt last long though. I`m so glad I had a girl, I`ve always been a tomboy and having a girl brought a side out to me i never knew was there, my hubbys dad dies and he was desperate for a boy, he took it better than me though, now we`re at 36 weeks and when we got told it was a boy were upset, we wanted another girl, again we`re used to it now, but believe me there is nothing more wonderful than a Daddy and his daughter, watching them together actually makes me emotional.

jaimiecollette (277.3 days ago)
Hi :) I had my heart set on having a little girl, and my husband wanted a boy. When we found out we where having our little guy he was over the top excited, and i couldn`t explaing what i felt...i will admit i was dissapointed at first and it took me a good week to get used to the idea that we where having a son, but now i can not imagine having a girl, i can`t wait for our little boy to be born. It`s really just a shock at first, that you have to get used to :)

Niamh-Jo (278.9 days ago)
As long as baby`s healthy that`s the main thing pet!

captshelley (279.8 days ago)
We both wanted a boy and find out it was a girl early on. I felt in my gut that I was pregnant with a boy. I had them recheck to make sure it was a girl. I really wanted a boy first. I had a girl. Still wanting a boy after the delivery I dressed her up as a boy a couple of times just to see what it would be like. I`m so glad she`s a girl because I know her now (she`s almost 4 months) and love her more than the gender. Make sense? Once she started revealing her personality I stopped caring about what gender I wanted.

cahlika (279.8 days ago)
I always thought I`d have a boy first and got a girl. My second was also a girl. I wasn`t worried at all. But I will add that this bub (#3) will be my last and so I really hope its a boy. Either way will be fine but it would be nice to have a son. I wanted to find out what bub is so that I could get over any minor disappointment early and focus on having a healthy bubby girl but we`ve decided not to find out. I think that this way I`ll be so relieved bub is out and healthy with no worries that I won`t have a second thought about what it is.

denee85 (280.1 days ago)
I brought it on myself I think...I got pregnant with both of my boys (one is almost 4,30 weeks with #2) one THE day of ovulation which increases your chance of a boy..But I wanted a baby so bad that I wanted to try as close to my fertile times as possible so I would get pregnant (the farther away from the day of ovulation the less chance of getting pregnant) and So...I`m having another boy..I was really kinda wanting a girl since I already have a boy,but I`ve gotten over my disapointment for the most part and am really pretty excited now...I get to have two mommas boys..lol.. I felt ashamed for being upset about having another boy,but it`s normal and in the end,it`s your baby and you can always try again if it`s that important to you...You`ll love your baby now matter what:)

mamacakes (280.1 days ago)
I agree so much with kateohm....Im one of those people who have a very difficult time getting prego, hence the 10 year diff in age. Also...my sister-in-law went through 9 years and many tests and prcedures and finally after several rounds of IVF she is having a baby also. For people like us its hurtful that someone is so picky about the sex they desire. Me and my sis-in-law could give two S@*TS what we are having. We just feel blessed to be having one at all. Whatever it is, it is and we thank god everyday for the gift of life that he has given us.

SRHMKP (280.2 days ago)
I HAD THE SAME THING HAPPEN, WE DECIDED TO GET PREGNANT AND WE REALLY WANTED A BOY SO I DID SOME LOOKING AROUNG AND FOUND A BUNCH OF STUFF TO DO TO HELP WITH THAT AND WE FOUND OUT WE R HAVING A GIRL.I WAS SO SURE WE WERE HAVING A BOY I TOTALLY PREPARED FOR A BOY SO I WAS SAD WHEN I FOUND OUT BUT STARTED TO FEEL BETTER LOOKING AT THE LITTLE GIRL CLOTHS. KNOW MATTER WHAT ITS STILL UR BABY AND U LOVE THEM! THIS IS GOING TO BE MY 3RD GIRL AND IM NOT HAVING ANY MORE SO I WAS SAD BUT ITS OK.

kathrynthefair (280.2 days ago)
oh, and by the way, one GREAT thing about finding out this early is that you have ALOT of time to adjust before she gets here. that`s why i was set on knowing asap.

kathrynthefair (280.2 days ago)
i had the same problem. i REALLY wanted my first child to be a boy. when i had my 20 week ultraound i found out im going to have a girl. i felt REALLY sad. since then, getting cute outfits has helped, and what helped the most, is seeing her 100% healthy on the last two ultrasounds ive had. once you start to get pictures of her face and know she is super healthy, you start to get really excited and used to the idea. i`m sure we will both love our little girls either way! don`t worry!

Jess G (280.2 days ago)
I think she does feel happy that the baby is healthy, it`s not about that. You just have a desire for a baby girl or baby boy, probably since childhood, and you just picture everything about it..and when it turns out the opposite sex, you just feel a `let down`...until you can picture yourself with that child, and absolutely when you meet them. I can understand...I really wanted a little girl...I`ve always thought I`d have a girl...well, my husband agreed to having one child and his family has boys...boys boys boys...very very few girls. I just knew he`d produce a boy...and I really desired a girl...and tho I would have been happy and gotten used to the idea of a boy, I did want a girl....unbelievably, my ONE and only chance at having a girl, I got a girl...even tho I found out it was a girl, I had this fear it would come out a boy..but she didn`t...but I can completely understand the intial disappointment. My mom really wanted a boy and until I was born, she thought it was a boy, even the DR did...then I came out...a girl..she had that disappointment too...but after some time, it faded and she cant imagine life any other way! good luck!

BabyGonzales (280.3 days ago)
With this pregnancy I feel that it is a boy and I want a lil boy but if its a girl then thats fine too as long as the baby is healthy. I think you should feel blessed to be able to get the opportunity to have a baby. Boy or girl, they are gifts from god. Im sure you`re sadness will fade.

roxannie (280.3 days ago)
I dont know what i am having yet but...When I first found out i was pregnant i was so set on having a boy that i actually worried about having a girl but one day it just clicked that I couldnt possibly care as long as they are healthy...But i remember going into baby gap one day and realizing how stinkin cute the girls things were and how much fun it would be to do hair and get cute dresses...AND REMEMBER daughters are the ones who take care of their elderly parents...you wont catch your son wiping your butt when your old..ahaha...I still hope that i have a boy first but..i promise you will get past this aversion to girls :)

leanie093 (280.3 days ago)
IT`S OK TO FEEL A LITTLE UPSET, I MEAN YOU HAD YOUR MIND SET ON ONE SEX. BUT, NONE THE LESS THE FEELING OF SADNESS WILL PASS & YOU`LL START GETTING INTO PLANNING EVERYTHING FOR YOUR LITTLE MAN. i MUST ADMIT MY 1ST PREGNANCY I REALLY THOUGHT IT WAS A GIRL & AT THE ULTRASOUND, THERE IT WAS... LEGS WIDE OPEN FOR ALL TO SEE. IT WAS SO OBVIOUS IT WAS A BOY & YES I FELT A LITTLE BUMMED OUT BUT THEN I COULDN`T WAIT TO SEE MY SON & HONESTLY, NOW HE`S ABOUT 8 MONTHS OLD & I`M COMPLETELY OBSESSED WITH HIM, LOL. I CAN`T SEE MYSELF WITHOUT HIM. SO NO NEED TO WORRY. =)

Nan639 (280.3 days ago)
This is why I didn`t find out with my first pregnancy. I really wanted a girl and knew I would be terribly upset with a boy. I`m sure you`ll get used to the idea. And once the baby comes, you`ll be so in love it won`t matter. :)



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