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sadielady`s poll Show results | Hide results


Other-poll poll this doesnt have anything to do with me or my pregnancy.. but one of my best friends has genital herpes.. and had unprotected sex with someone, she says her doctor told her women cant spread it unless theyre having an outbreak,, but everywhere i look it says nothing like that. im kind of upset with her and i feel like she needs to tell the guy. is it not my place, should i just let her live her life.?? ughh advice?
(Other poll by sadielady, 78 days ago)


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Comments: 9

agonzales (76.2 days ago)
I also believe its wrong what shes doing but its her place to tell him not yours. What kind of friend would you be if you told him. I think you should really try to convince her to tell him and tell her to use protection from now on or dont have sex at all. Why would she want to put someone in a situation shes in right now.

sadielady (77.5 days ago)
thanks for all the comments. even though i think she should tell him, especially because what shes doing is probably exactly how whoever gave it to her did, it really is her decision. im the only one who knows and its not my place, but i just feel like i need to try and convince her to tell him,, just dont know how.

panekbaby (77.5 days ago)
I mean she will hate you. oops. Good luck

panekbaby (77.5 days ago)
This is gonna sound really bad but I don`t think it`s any of your business. The right thing is for her to tell him of course, but this doesn`t affect you or your life so just leave her alone. You can tell her how you feel, but in the end it is her decision to tell people. If you go behind her back and tell everyone who she slept with, you will hate you.

luvlylillatina84 (78 days ago)
Genital herpes sucks to have! She should totally tell him and be careful because even with protection (condoms) she can still spread it, whether or not shes having an outbreak. It can have severe consequences if spread to her child at birth when she does get pregnant, not to mention that it is quite often accompanied with some form of HPV, which in some cases can cause cervical cancer. She knows how bad it is, so she should protect others from it by disclosing it to lovers, using protection, and receiving supressive therapy.

kristenpaxton (78.1 days ago)
You can spread that even with protection at anytime! She should definately be telling ppl b4 she sleeps with them. I mean...how did she get it...my guess would be sum jerk that never told her. Does she really wanna be that person??

*AJLS* (78.3 days ago)
I say anonymously tell him to get tested and then truly rip a strip off of your friend for having unprotected sex with a partner that`s not in the know. My brother has GH and he ALWAYS discloses before having unprotected sex - if a relatioship fails because of it, it`s the wrong relationship...

baby3coming (78.4 days ago)
Absolutely tell her to tell the guy!! If not you should tell him, he could spread it if he got it! Good luck

cherryrose (78.4 days ago)
You need to say something to her!!! She needs to tell any sex parteners about it and use protection!!!!



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