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Name-poll poll Help! We have to leave for dance class in thirty minutes and I need this poll to help make up my mind. My daughter is three years old and the class is just 30 minutes long. She has loved it so far but last week she complained of a sore stomach so we didn`t go and this week she doesn`t want to go either. I think of these activities as extracurricular, therefore extra. Anyway, the long and the short of it is, should I force her to go or just skip it? Thanks!!
(Name poll by mumsy, 1212 days ago)
Make her go!
Skip it, she's only three.+
Make her go!
Skip it, she's only three.+.


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Comments: 5

avenue (1210.1 days ago)
let her decide, its up to her really, i know she is only 3, but she still has to learn, and think for herself, and as its just a extra activity, and not like school, then you shouldnt forse her into it, as the classes are suppoed to be for fun.

Tylers Mum (1210.8 days ago)
kids sometimes use sore bellies and feeling sick as a way to get out of sports or dancing because they are being bullied. just a suggestion.

marietta (1211.5 days ago)
Listen carefully to that girl! They`re too little to be responsible for the big decisions (same at age 4, 5, 6...), and often unable to articulate what the real problem is. My DD wanted to quit lessons b/c her teacher was forcing her body down to the ground to make her do a split and it was tearing her muscles! Teacher seemed delightful until I saw her do it with my own eyes. I`d want to either let her out, in hind sight, or see to it that I am IN there (notice how they like the parents outside the studio) and can observe for myself what is going on.

jensay (1211.6 days ago)
i wouldn`t force her... try & encourage her and like lukesmyboy said... dance with her at home...

LKLmama (1211.6 days ago)
Put some music on and dance at home!!



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