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Pregnancy-poll poll I am sooooo tired! Due to my working nights and our daughter, I am up for 24 four hours at a time on Saturdays and Tuesdays. I actually fell asleep typing at work on Monday and the 35 minutes drive from work is even harder! I was exhausted early on with our first child, but then I could always take a nap when I needed to. My issue now is my husband is constantly nagging me for sex! He does so little around the house, so by the time I fall in to bed, I am sleeping before my head hits the pillow. He tried to wake me at 4am this morning to have sex! I don`t know what to do! He just doesn`t seem to understand or care!
(Pregnancy poll by sleepymomma, 1113 days ago)
Tell him to stop being a buttthead
Just do it, if you fall asleep in the middle, oh well.
This one is tricky, I am not sure.
I will comment


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Comments: 8

stargazer530 (1111.8 days ago)
Let him know if he expects you to satisfy him then you need some satisfaction as well...as in helping out around the house. It`s not fair for a man to expect you to be wife, mother, housekeeper, cook, breadwinner, and put out on demand, especially at 4 am in the morning!

jenakers (1112.7 days ago)
Tell him what a turn on it is for you when he does housework! Oh, BABY, YAH, you vacuum soooo goooood ;)

Lou-Li-Ro (1112.8 days ago)
I feel for you; I know how it feels, it is SOO HARD to do `it` when you`re so exhausted. I just try and explain to my SO about everything I`ve done that day, and I promise him lovely times in the near future (like on a weekend when you have more time) but RIGHT NOW I NEED MY SLEEP!!!

tto (1112.9 days ago)
I told my dh he has to make it happen- meaning he knows what needs to be done beforehand so make sure all that is done early: kids in bed, shower done, pumping done, etc. Also, he needs to not tick me off first. Sometimes I throw him a bone and just do a quickie.

sleepymomma (1113 days ago)
On Saturday there is no one to help.Daisy will only stay with my mom and my aunt. My mom and husband both work on Tuesday.I am on my own with Daisy until he comes home at 9pm. Thanks for the votes, I was concerned I was being a neurotic pregnany chick.

armymom (1113 days ago)
No sex until mama gets some rest and if he`s unwilling or unable to help with baby duties maybe you should consider parttime daycare during the day when you should be sleeping on those 2 days. Do you have family or friends close that wouldn`t mind helping out? You need someone.. it could be really dangerous to be driving 35 minutes on those days your so sleep deprived. I really hope you get some much needed help soon.. your husband is CRAZY to think he`s getting lucky.

bethk (1113 days ago)
Tell him if he wants any with u then help u get to be earlier i.e Do house work and stuff that needs doing b4 bedtime! If he refuses then I would put a sex ban on hehe

his1-n-only (1113 days ago)
buy him a magazine, lol. tell him to go f*** himself! LMAO, thats what i told my hubby. he took the hint after that!



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