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Other-poll poll Weird question I suppose...But what`s your view on PORN??
(Other poll by shocked-over-3, 1073 days ago)
It's something I enjoy on my own
It's something my SO is into and I'm okay with that
It's something my SO is into and I am bothered by it
My SO and I enjoy it together with no problems
I think it's a dirty,disgusting thing.....
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Comments: 17

MormonBaby (1071.6 days ago)
MichelleMc - DITTO!

MichelleMc(pink!) (1071.8 days ago)
Hehe, no not ALL men look at porn. My husband is a married man, and while I completely understand this doesn`t mean he is blind and won`t ever notice other women who are attractive, we believe that making a point (no pun intended, haha ;P) of getting turned on by people other than your spouse is cheating. This is our belief and I do understand many will disagree.

jinx-marcell (1072.5 days ago)
I heard my SO Being reffered to as the King Of Porn and I`d come across his collection before. So one day while he was in the shower I popped one in the DVD player and completely shocked him because I`m not entirely comfortable with it. I just want him to feel like he can be himself and do his own thing wether or not I`m around. Good news is, when we make love and there`s a porn on, I still end up getting almost all of his attention. :)

Terise (1072.6 days ago)
Hubby doesnt watch it that often, if he was watching all the time I would probably get upset. We have watched it together a few times and I quite enjoyed it. was easier for me to get in the mood.

bellajenna (1072.6 days ago)
I think its a healthy way to express sexuality. Study`s show men who do watch porn are LESS likely to cheat than those who dont. b/c in the movie ect. it is acting out fanticys ect and they dont need to fulfill that in real life b/c in their mind it kinda has already been done.

MormonBaby (1072.6 days ago)
GROSS

Kevinsmilfx2 (1072.6 days ago)
No porn in this house - there`s friggin kids here, hello????

gr8scottswife (1072.6 days ago)
Make your own porn. That way your husband`s watching you.

Lookalike (1072.7 days ago)
I like it more than my hubby does.

shelley75 (1072.7 days ago)
not a big deal to me... I know my hubby sometimes watches it but it really doesn`t bother me at all especially since we haven`t had sex in a couple months because I just really really don`t want to and have told him he is cut off until after this baby. He is o.k with that too as we both find it too cumbersome and hard to do with this big belly in the way.

thamouse (1072.7 days ago)
I used to think it was disgusting and didn`t understand why anyone would like to watch it. Until I got actually sexually active and tried it out one time and little did I know...it actually can turn me on!! My husband is surprised and I seem to like it more than he does. We watch it occasionally and when we`re together, although sometimes he goes online and downloads some video`s he thinks I might enjoy. He gets more turned on when I do, not just by watching the video`s. I guess not all men are as visual as we think and not all women are as opposed to porn as we think.

Lou-Li-Ro (1072.7 days ago)
I used to HATE it, I mean really f`ing hate it!!! I was up on my high horse about it, wished it didn`t exist, made me mad, made me feel I was being cheated on etc. Now, I am much more lax about it. I still think it`s sleazy and don`t like the idea of it, but I understand that he just uses it when he needs that `release`(!) If I thought too deeply into it I could probably get a bit upset over it, but I don`t have the time or energy to care any more! I used to feel the same as mikasmommy but I don`t feel that way now. I understand that men have a need to have that release and it is an easy way for them to get it when we`re not around (or are too tired!!) I don`t think my man looks at it much, but I know he does look at it.

happyforest (1072.7 days ago)
my bf doesnt watch it a lot...a few times while i was preg and really sensitive i got mad at him but normally i dont get mad. if he did it all the time i would be mad and think it was strange but he doesnt. very rarely i even watch it myself!

shocked-over-3 (1072.7 days ago)
I agree with mikasmommy...It`s like being cheated on if your man is watching it without you..I myself go back and forth as far as how I feel about watching it WITH him,but I`m just glad he`s not really interested! Whew!! Some men are into that stuff and I`m not sure I could handle that..It does feel like they`re saying that you`re not good enough or hot enough and they need stimulation from another woman......

bethk (1072.8 days ago)
Doesnt bother me one bit! In fact some turns me on! haha any of u watch Sexcetra on here? Now that is weird porno! But Im comfortable watchin it with my partner or even if he wants to watch it when Im not around Im not bothered as he usually laughin at it tho lol x

JMendez (1072.8 days ago)
Neither me or the hubby watches it. I guess to each their own but we just never have been in a situation where we`ve wanted to watch it or anything.

armymom (1072.8 days ago)
It doesn`t bother me. Not like I have any control over it anyway.. poor guy has been in afghanistan for 12 months now.. I`m sure there`s been some porn watching going on. lol.



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