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Other-poll poll Does anyone else have someone in their lives that`s always in `competition` with them? A Keeping Up With The Jones` type person? (I`ll comment my story)
(Other poll by Kevinsmilfx2, 1072 days ago)
Yes, SO annoying!
No, I lucked out in that department
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Comments: 8

Kevinsmilfx2 (1071.5 days ago)
NICE!!! That`s hilarious!!!

Kevinsmilfx2 (1071.8 days ago)
Thanks ladies, I feel better that I`m not the only one...and I like gr8scottswife`s quotes...

EmmaReed84 (1071.9 days ago)
My so-called best friend was like that. We had been friends since we are 11 and always did everything together. As we grow up she always had to be better than me. Once I went over to hers and met some of her mates and I got on with them all great, when they left she told me they didnt like me. When I met them again they were all like wow we love you where have you been, so I told them what my mate said and they had no idea why she said it....I should have twigged from them she was the jealous competitive type. I met my then bf and fell pregnant, when my son was 3 months she rings me and tells me she is pregnant as well. Me and dh decide to get married, so she decides to get married too, although they split up in the end. I fell pregnant again just before got married and she was like, oh should you have got pregnant, not a good idea. Then she didnt even show up to my wedding I was devasted, not even a text. Then 4 months later she texts me telling me she misses me and that she has met someone new, is pregnant again and getting married. I have not actually spoken to her since she ditched me on my wedding day. Its not worth it. She is not worth it. She always made comments as well after I gave birth to my first son about how fat I was (she was very skinny) then when she had her son she was massive, I am talking HUGE so there is some justice in the world lol

jenakers (1071.9 days ago)
Oh God, Where do I start? I had a best friend for 23 years. She was always competitive. She went to college and I did not. She LOVED to rub her education in my face. In the years she was `learning` (partying) in college I set up a nice life for myself. I purchased my first home at 19 and had it paid off by 24. She was EXTREMELY jealous of this and told me her education was worth more than my home. She got married and bought a nice home and our relationship was fine for a while...beside the fact she married a HORSE`S ASS. When she invited me to her new place, I OOOOHED and AAAHHHED and told her it was lovely. Well we outgrew our old house and bought a new one and it was very nice. I envited her over, as she had done with me, and her reaction was cold, flat faced and indifferent. She didn`t have to do cartwheels but, it would have been nice for her to be happy for me. It felt like when I got something nice it angered her. She didn`t come over for 11 months because I wouldn`t let her bring an 85 pound Lab to go scurrying across our hardwood floors (she only lived 40 minutes away, leave the damn dog at home). It was another 8 months after that visit she came over. Her husband was the worst. He was a compliment SPONGE and he would NEVER compliment anyone else. He would make dinner for us and SOAK in the praise. We would make dinner for them and he would not even say thank you. IN FACT.... I NEVER HEARD THE MAN SAY THANK YOU, in the 9 years that I knew him. I am an antique dealer. I helped them furnish their house (book cases, nursery, beds, cupbords, couch, antiques) without making a single dollar. I drove round trip 1-1/2 hours to deliver a freezer at cost no thank you. They waited 2 months to pay me. If my husband bought a guitar hers did also. If I got new clothes she did also. If I got something nice and she couldn`t match it, she would demean whatever it was I got. If she was feeling slighted she would try to use her education to make me feel dumb. In the end this `best friend` turned on me in an INSTANT and sold me down the river. I regret all of the things I did for her and how much I cared about her. She did not make me a better person. Because of her I have a deep untrust of girls. I will never let a girlfriend get that close to me or allow someone to exhibit that competition over my life. Ok....rant over.

Lookalike (1071.9 days ago)
My brother in law is always like that. He`s always got to have something that no one else has. And then he has to talk about it non stop until we`re all tired of him and what a deal he got because everyone else is stupid compared to him (note the sarcasm)

gr8scottswife (1071.9 days ago)
My best friend does not try to keep up with me, but she tries to keep up with every body. She`s like a hamster on a wheel, running as fast as she can and getting nowhere, or maybe she`s like a small canoe at sea, easily tossed and turned and definitely afloat with no direction or purpose.

lori18 (1072.3 days ago)
OMG! yes and I just last month quit talking to her! UUUUHHHH! her and her husband both every time my husband and I got something they had to do the same! we buy a car they did too we have a baby they did too we buy furniture so did they! her husband is such an ass he likes to dish aot crap and not receive it back he also sometimes will ask when I went out to eat with them if I need him to pay like I cant afford it so I told him if I cant pay then I would not go out! well finally we got to buy a home and it is more than double the size of there home her husband stoped talking to me!! LOL! that was over 3 years ago! then over the summer I opened a photo studio and she keeps calling mee to see about photos but I know she only wants free stuff but I cant give her free stuff i got to pay bills and we are very slow lucky to have one appt a week! they are the type of people thet only like you if they have more than you and you do things for them she is very cheap and will want you to do stuff for her and will not return the favor like when we worked together I would go get lunch and give her all her change no problem but if she went she would keep the change! WTF? I asked her why she said to help pay the gas! i just caould not take her cheap ass and quit talking to her! sorry this is sooooo long but you got me started! LOL!!!! TTYL!

Kevinsmilfx2 (1072.4 days ago)
My husband`s friend`s fiance and I are both planning weddings (mine is a vow renewal and reception, since we never did that the first time `round). We are `friends` on myspace and it seems like everytime I mention a word about planning, be it blogging, or a picture or ANYTHING, she tries to one-up me in the same way. It`s ridiculous. I`ve noticed it at other times since my hubby and I have been together, but seriously it`s never been like this. Example: She just got engaged in Feb. My hubby and I have been planning our ceremony since August. There was a particular venue I had blogged about at that time that I wanted to check out. Gee, guess where the first place was she went - MY VENUE, and to top that, SHE EFFING BOOKED IT ON THE DATE WE HAD ALREADY CHOSEN!!!! She`s getting married on OUR anniversary. Umm...Yeah, tacky. Am I the only person that knows someone like this??? I`ve NEVER met anyone like this before. She makes me absolutely nuts! (Not that I ever let her know that.) I`d feel better knowing I`m not the only one plagued by a person or people like this. Seriously, does she understand how tacky and idiotic her behavior is??? AHHH!!! Ok, venting is over... (for now, lol)



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