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Chocolate-LEO (963.3 days ago)
Girl If I found that out....I would jump off the tallest building belly first! LORD, I would really break down and cry. I mean I cried the first time I found, so just emagine how the second time would be. However, I would be supper scared but I think I would keep it! It just depends on whats going on in my life at the time and how the relationship is between me and the father!

mother of one (1063.2 days ago)
I took a test today and so far it looks like I`m NOT pregnant. I`m not sure how accurate it is because it said painkillers can mess with the results and I`ve been taking painkillers just about everyday for my migraines. If I dont get a period next month, then I`ll test again. I have birthcontrol in my room but that`s not the one I need. I need some Yaz or something for PMDD or just to get my cycles regular and to help with the intense cramping. Anyways, thanks to all those who voted and who sent me a comment. I appreciate it.....it helped more than you know! :-)

pregolinz (1064.9 days ago)
I think you should think about whats in the best interest for your unborn child. This is not something to take lightly but if you feel you would not be able to provide for both children I want you to just know that there are many parents out there that would love to have a child and they may never get the chance with out the loving decision of the women who choose adoption. I chose adoption with my first child I now speak at high school about making responsible choices if you have any questions please let me know.

kaylamama *BLUE* (1064.9 days ago)
I once had a scare and was told I may never have kids (docs thought I had an badly deformed uterus), so I went through months of grieving and turmoil over the thought of never having kids.. I`m now 4 months pregnant, and know that if I got pregnant again that soon by surprise, I would, without a thought, decide to keep the child. Children are a blessing!! Even though financially it may be rough, there is always a way to make provision.

mandyf1231 (1064.9 days ago)
Your poll is very interesting to me bc I have been thinking about this ALOT lately. We are very hard up for money and our first child was NOT expected. We have both been extremely paranoid about getting pregnant again so soon after the first (he will be two months tomorrow). I have always been back and forth on the abortion issue. But now, after holding my beautiful child in my arms, having him look up at me with those innocent eyes, I know I could never ever consider abortion again. How could I, after seeing the results of our first unexpected arrival? How could I do anything but love the next one with just as much passion as I did the first, whenever he comes? I know it would be sooooo hard if we did get pregnant again, but I know that with the help of those I love, we would make it out of the trouble. I trust that, even if it is unbelievably difficult and sacrifices would have to be made, I would get through it and never regret my decision. I hope this helps without preaching. And my decision is based soley on my feelings. Not religion or politics. Just the simple act of holding my baby in my arms and knowing that there is a definete reason for his existence.

shangurl11 (1065 days ago)
I have 2 children. My last was born Aug. 28th, 2008. I got pregnant 2 months later. I am now 23 weeks pregnant with our 3rd child. It`s hard, but it`s such a blessing to have children. I am grateful hubby and I are getting it over with now. Everything happens for a reason. :)

jenakers (1065 days ago)
what would I do?...I`d freak out! Just kidding. This, to me is imposible answer as everyone`s situation is different. Be it emotional, finacial, father related, etc. Just to many variables for me to make any suggestion. It is soley up to your copacity to make this decision one way or the other. Good luck though and remember at the end of the day it is what YOU can live with and not up to the judgment of others.

nicolle (1065 days ago)
Well I am pregnant with my 3rd at 25 weeks and my son just turned 10 months so do the math, you deal with what you are handled, I mean I know I was just a shocked but we as mother`s have an inter strength that only you can find. You will do what you think is right, there are allot of resources for financial help for single parents, you just need to look.

Mandy-n-Eoins-Peanut (1065 days ago)
Hi Brodys Mommy, A friend of mine conceived again six weeks after her daughter was born...and as regards the hassle being pregnant with a newborn in the house, she never really had time to notice she was pregnant, as she was busy with her daughter, so her pregnancy flew. She didn`t dwell on it. The hassle of a newborn and a baby not even a toddler yet? Absolutely none. She has them both in a routine and strictly sticks to it. Both babies are good as gold...and she also has an eight year old boy! The money worries are a horse of a different color, and unfortunately there isn`t a whole lot you can do with it. Just review your budget and make more cuts accordingly, which is not always easy - and sometimes nigh on impossible - but it`s all you can do..perhaps put a few pounds away every week from now until new baby is born, and that should ease the stress of buying two sets of formula and nappies. Even if it`s only a fiver a week... Hope at least some of this was helpful xx tc

hotpotaaaaato (1065 days ago)
look in your heart for an answer, and pray over it. good luck

mother of one (1065 days ago)
I just turned 19 not even a month ago. Having Brody was hard bc it wasnt planned and if I`m pregnant this one wont be planned either. I havent worked in almost a yr. Brody hasnt EVER gone without anything but idk if I can handle another baby. Brody`s father helps every now and then and its only with money ($60).



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