Heaven (1054.3 days ago) I do everything! cooking, cleaning, shopping, finances, you name it I do it. Patrick works 6 days a week with mandatory overtime. I`m not sure if I`m just used to this lifestyle or choose it but all and all it works.... for now
EmmaReed84 (1054.6 days ago) At the moment I am still at home with my 2 kids so I do pretty much all the house work. I always make sure that when DH comes home he has a cup of coffee and tea ready. Once dinner is done DH looks after the baby while I clear up (sometimes he clears up while I sit down if ive had a bad day) However on the weekend DH get up with the kids and Sunday he cooks me Sunday breakfast. I would say I am quite laid back, and go with the flow. We both talk about how things are. When I return to work everything will be split 50/50. I am not worried at all, because both me and DH work as a team. We both sit down in the evening together. Like DH says he finishes `work` at 4:30pm comes home and is then a parent, and I am a parent 100% of the time while I am always here.
mommynat (1054.8 days ago) I take care of the cooking/cleaning/shopping/dog... hubby takes care of the finances, but at the end of the day, we just take care of eachother... If I`m super tired, he`ll make dinner, or unload the dishwasher or vaccuum. (He`s working, I`m not) so I have all day to clean and have dinner ready for him when he gets home.
tinytots (1054.8 days ago) To Be quite Honest My b/f Does Eveything I oly look after the money and orgenising the small stuff .. I`m tired all day every day !!
Bek 30 (1054.9 days ago) Hubby works long hours 6 days a week, so when Sunday comes around he is catching up on outdoor jobs, mainly fencing and maintaining anything outside and I also help him. Inside it is me that does all the laundry, cleaning, cooking, bottles etc etc and I also mow the lawns once a week and give the outside verandah a clean every week, occasionally if I can`t be bothered cleaning the house, hubby will do it, but he draws the line at the bathroom and kitchen...lol, and I am the one who takes the rubbish out every week. But if hubby orders me to do something, I am much like Rachel, I won`t do it, and I defintly will not make him breakfast or lunch on the days that he is home.
arkansastechmommy (1054.9 days ago) In our house, we don`t have specific duties. Whoever isn`t busy @ the time whatever needs to be done, they do it.. no complaints!! I recently had one of my friends tell me she COULDN`T do something, because that wasn`t `HER CHORE`!! lol...
Lookalike (1054.9 days ago) I do MOST of the laundry, cooking, and cleaning. He does MOST of the gardening and fixing thigs. We both work and he goes to school. So I wouldn`t say 50/50 but we do have things divided up mostly along gender lines. He also does almost all of the driving. It`s not about not letting me drive, but about taking care of me. It`s not insulting to me, because I can drive if I want to, he`s just nice enough to know that he should be taking care of me.
lovemyfamily (1055 days ago) He does most, and works and goes to school. I`m exhausted 24/7
bluejeans (1055 days ago) I am the sort of person if my bf tells me I HAVE to do something for him I wont because I dont like to be ordered so the nicer he is the more gets done!