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jamie (225.1 days ago)
I just wanted to add one more comment on the subject----When I was in my early twenties sex was the best thing since sliced bread, my then partner and I had sex everyday-sometimes twice-3x a day. It was just something to do..Now in my thirties I could care less...I wonder how much of it has to do with age..I`d say my sex drive slowd down when I hit about 27,of course thats when I got pregnant!

RobinG (225.5 days ago)
You are TOTALLY normal ~ he is the abnormal one IMO ~ and he is VERY wrong in thinking that. I dont personally know anyone who wants it daily, ACCEPT a man, lol. (But I'm sure there are a few) If my hubby got upset with me not wanting it daily and feeling I was abnormal for it he and I wouldnt be married anymore cause I find it offensive that because I dont feel as he does on things means I am not normal ~ sorry just my opinion, big big hugs to you ((()))

brendalee (225.6 days ago)
When we first got married we`d have sex 2 or 3 times a day, now it`s usually once a day or once every other day. my hubby is a little more reluctant now because he doesnt want another baby lol

carla81 (225.7 days ago)
Ok, he should be getting upset with you at all! My hubby and I have sex about 1-2 a week. I think every man would like to have it every day, but they`re built differently. Men seem to need sex like they need air (not that that a bad thing), but they tend to think more with their....wel you know lol! Do not let you`re hubby make you feel bad or guilty about this, he`ll get over it. Show him this poll and then he`ll see that he`s being unreasonable and pressuring you. I agree with EmmaReed: there is so much more then just sex that you can do. My hubby would also not want sex at all if he thought I was just doing to please him. This may sound harsh, but tell him to grow up and get a life!

alijo (225.8 days ago)
We have sex a couple of times a week at most, and we are both more than satisfied with that. Every day - ha ha ha ha ha ha. There are days when we don`t even see each other, or when we just both pass out from exhaustion.

daisymae (225.9 days ago)
How funny. My DH is sitting here next to me telling me he knows how much I want it tonight (which I don`t ...lol) and then I read your poll. I have a 5 month old and I probably only want it about once a week but I probably do it about 2 to 4 times a week. I would rather cuddle- but cuddling turns him on to. What can I say, I`m simply irrisistable lol.

MoNtRiCe8488 (225.9 days ago)
SEX is far from my mind...4-5 times a month if lucky! lol

montanamamaof3 (226 days ago)
No way. I want it more than my husband but 2-3 x`s a week would be more than enough! 3 kids and both of us working-I don`t even think about it everyday. I am not sure where he heard women want it that much. I don`t know any woman that does.

mysticmoonmommyisback (226 days ago)
Wow, it`s opposite for me. I am the one who seems want it almost all the time. 3-4 times a week if lucky. : p

happyforest (226 days ago)
well preg i can understand if someone doesnt want sex, but i am suprised to see so many people put less than once a week!! i wonder if eveyrone who said that was preg...? i would hate only getting sex a few times a month! i guess some people just get boring together as they get old...i hope that doesnt happen to us

Bangel (226.1 days ago)
sex is the last thing on my mind. happens like once a month!

jamie (226.1 days ago)
We had a pretty good sex life before kids-at least every day. As soon as I hit about the 5 month mark w/my first I was just not interested in sex----5 years later Im still not interested..I am TOO TIRED!!! Plus the no kids life is WAY more sexy.. Im just a lazy slob now..Im always too tired to function..I do my make up maybe once a month...I live in sweat pants! Thank -God he still finds me sexy. The problem is I dont FEEL sexy...I am actually looking foward to our retirement so we can have eachother and a sex life back!! Hopefully my vagina doesnt break before that time!!

aidensmommy1 (226.2 days ago)
You are not abnormal at all..before pregnancy me and my man did it quite often..during pregnancy we still tried for once a week at least, now with a 7 month old baby we seriously are lucky to do it once every 2 weeks! Having a baby changes a lot and for us this was one by the time we hit the bed at night sleep is the number one thing on both our minds!

EmmaReed84 (226.2 days ago)
HA HA HA HA Soooo sorry for laughing but if my husband got sex once a week he would think Xmas had come early lol. When we first met we would have sex at least twice a day, we seriously were mad, no wonder I ended up pregnant after just 6 months. After my 1st son was born it took me about 3-4 months to have sex again because the birth was so traumatic. We started to up it to once a month, then got daring at even did it twice a month...then I got pregnant again lol. I did try sex when pregnant but it was soooo painful. Now since my LO we do have sex once a month but he understands that I am tired after looking after 2 kids, also he said whats the point in having sex if I don`t enjoy it, the whole reason we both have sex is because we BOTH want to....He would be so mad at me if I just had sex to `please him` Your husband is being unreasonable, I understand he may feel a bit unwanted, but there are other things you can do. Me and Hubby ALWAYS cuddle and kiss. There is so much more than SEX!!!!!

RJean (226.2 days ago)
I simply don`t feel as inclined to have sex now as I did before I got pregnant and I`ve never (pregnant or not) wanted to have sex everyday. I like to spice it up with cuddling, talking, and general intimacy that doesn`t involve sex. It isn`t just you and you are not abnormal. Maybe you can suggest this to your husband...



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