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LailasMommy (175.2 days ago)
o and i was scared of getting pregoo so i used condoms till i got my mirena in:) and i`m still using them since i had my period at 7 weeks pp so ovulation time is coming and i`m not taking any chances:)

LailasMommy (175.2 days ago)
i was scared but it didn`t hurt me one bit and it was great!!! i also had my baby in March:)....but i also didn`t have to get cut i did tear but it was sooo small it needed no stitches...i`m not sure if that makes a difference but also it felt back to normal not loose at all trust me i was sooo worried about that too so your normal:)

3girls2008 (175.5 days ago)
haha i am from the 12mo group and its still a little painfull sometimes! Ive had 3 episiotomies (sp?) though and its the incision point that hurts... just take your time!

soon2be3 (175.5 days ago)
Talk to the gals in month 12 about this one...lol. I waited about 3 months after my third. Yes, I said three months and it still was tender. We had sex maybe 4 times in 10 months. I was just too tired...would much rather sleep. I also had absolutely no sex drive. Once I stopped breastfeeding a month ago, things have perked up. Also, if you have scar tissue (like I do from stitches) it can be even more tender. You can get medication to help numb the area, but that kind of loses the point???

rosye13 (175.8 days ago)
Yes, I was completely freaked out. And it was a little awkward the first few times.

weeblette (175.8 days ago)
did it??????????????

MS.mom (175.8 days ago)
Totally normal. I swear that the Dr. poked me somewhere where he shouldn`t when he broke my water, b/c it hurt so bad! I was very tender there. I was barely dialeted when he did so, so they may have been why?? I literally just couldn`t get into it for months after my first was born. I really didn`t even start to feel myself again to he was about 6 months, and didn`t do it on a regular basis until baby was almost 12 months. I know that sounds odd, but I guess I was paronoid and scared. I certaintly hope it goes better for us this time!!

happyforest (175.9 days ago)
yes, i was so nervous!! i waited 5 weeks... it hurt when he first put it in but after a few secs it was ok. then of course it hurt a lot after!! and i was super paranoid of getting preg. it hurt to have sex for a few months after, but im 6 month pp now almost 7 and back to `normal` finally

mama2liv (176.1 days ago)
it just felt like i was a virgin again...the very first time was uncomfy, and i realized i was still sore and not ready so we waited 2 more weeks, still felt weird...but after that we got back into the hang of things...just felt so new again

christinarose (176.2 days ago)
I think it`s totally normal! The first time my BF and I did it after having our daughter I cried lol! We didn`t use anything, and I wasn`t on the pill and I was so sure I would end up pregnant again. It had only been JUST 6 weeks and I felt like I was betraying her by having sex again and getting pregnant, (even though I didn`t end up preggers lol). I got over it though but it was super emotional for me the first time after having her.

brendalee (176.2 days ago)
I did it one week after I had my daughter lol it didn`t really hurt at all.

sleepymomma (176.2 days ago)
It was very odd. I felt almost like a virgin again. It was odd the first few times, and I didn`t get the big `O` until the third or fourth time because I was so distracted and couldn`t focus on doing the deed. Just go really slowly.

Bangel (176.3 days ago)
normal! I refused to do it till I was on the pill again. And when we did, it was not uncomfortable at all, but I was all nervous and felt like I`d never done it before..lol

butterblocksmom (176.3 days ago)
The first few times/few weeks, it did NOT feel normal. It wasn`t bad (well, the first time it was a wee bit uncomfortable) and we had to use lubricant for a month or two, but eventually it started feeling really good again. My advice, go slow, lots of lead up (ie lots of cuddling, lots of massage, lots of holding prior to sex) and have lowered expectations. It shouldn`t HURT per se, and if it does, talk to your doctor, but not to worry...it gets great again...just practice!

busymommyof3 (176.3 days ago)
Thats normal! you just had a baby and although I did not wait 6 weeks, It was in the back of my mine NOT to get pregnant again. We just used condoms and it was fine untill I was able to get on birth control again



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