Amanda-is-Rebekahs-Mommy (172.4 days ago) Totally the same thing, just men are visual creatures. I get a lot more excited reading a romance novel than I do watching a porno, pornos tend to just make me laugh. The way I see it is if I can read porn, hubby`s allowed to watch it, as long as he knows that just cuz he sees it in a video does not mean it will happen in real life. (though for some reason my hubby isn`t that into porn, but if he was I wouldn`t be bothered by him watching it occasionally)
daydays mom (174.3 days ago) well you have to think of it in a open mind way! Men arent always the ones who watch porn but men who watch porn and ladys for read those books that have Sex scenes in it...i mean its really giving you the same thoughts as if you where sitting right there watching it on a movie. so maybe i do think it is a type of porn, its really what you are into!
summerisis (174.3 days ago) I`m not into porn and either is my hubby but we stumbled across a photo of a woman with a soda can up her butt(I showed it to him!) and I was thinking `Sure, he can look at porn because I am SO not threatened by a woman that had a butt-hole so huge that poop just falls out.`
freedomlee (174.5 days ago) I think it`s the same. Just in a different manner. As if to say, I like banannas, but the hubby likes apples. They are both visual aides. I just think men find it harder to use their imagination and pictures are much easier. Just as there is soft core porn and hard core, romance novels have different levels of intensity too. I like them both...hehe
experiencedmom (174.5 days ago) I never read a romance novel but I wouln`t have a problem with him reading it. He may come back with something to spark things up. Read on :)
tommiesmommy (174.5 days ago) Totally the same thing. Not all porn is dirty/cheap...lol
thebigtomato (174.5 days ago) I think it`s the same. You`re just using your imagination to conjure the same images he`s looking at ready-made. LOL
amber325 (174.5 days ago) Oh they are the same thing lol..porn is a little dirtier and cheaper...but both are porn related. I read them all the time and watch porn ( hubby loves this b/c it makes sex life great)