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Baby-poll poll When or IF you were to find out your were pregnant with your next child would you tell your older child/children or wait?
(Baby poll by armymom, 980 days ago)
Yes, I would tell my child/children as soon as I found out
I would wait until after the 1st trimester at least
I would wait until I was showing
My current child/children are too young to understand so I'd go ahead and tell them


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Comments: 6

mommy2four (979.1 days ago)
My morning sickness isn`t that noticeable since I don`t throw up so I am able to keep it between my husband and myself. We didn`t tell our older children until after the first trimester because we didn`t want anyone else to know yet and we knew that they wouldn`t be able to keep it to themselves. We told them when we were ready for everyone to know.

heathert (979.5 days ago)
With my almost 1 y/o I told my 15y/o daughter and my 10 y/o son right away. Also with the baby I am carrying now I told them right away.

christinamommyto3 (979.5 days ago)
We tried to wait awhile, but I had morning sickness soooooo bad the older 2 didn`t understand why I was sick so much. My daughter thought I had the flu or something lol So, we had to tell them.

armymom (979.5 days ago)
Good point!

happyforest (979.6 days ago)
i think you should tell immediate family members right away (everyone in the household). it would be hard to hide it from people who lived with you. and also if you have a MC you will have to tell them anyway, bc otherwise your children wouldnt know why you were grieving and it would confuse them and maybe cause them not to trust you if they knew you were keeping something from them

armymom (979.6 days ago)
BTW I`m NOT pregnant again I was just curious as to what other women would do. I`ve had a MC several years ago and was thinking about how hard it would be to explain that to your older child.



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