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Other-poll poll We have a dilemna, our 5 month old daughter is getting a little big for the bassinette. My FIL lives with us for the moment in the room next to the baby`s room. I am extremely uncomfortable putting her in her room all the way across the house and next to him. The crib will not come out of her room without taking it apart. We have not bought anything for baby number 2 yet. What do I do??
(Other poll by amberzon, 969 days ago)
Buy a portable crib to put in your room.
Put her in the bed with us.
Kick the lazy bum out.
OMG, quit making it difficult, just take the crib apart.


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Comments: 9

amberzon (968.7 days ago)
Of course I know what to do, is it up to me? no, I don`t feel like it is. My DH knows exactly how I feel about it. Are we in danger?? God no!!!! I would leave with my baby before that was even a possibility. The man has lived (mooched) off of us for over 5 years. I do not like him. He has held his granddaughter once, that is by his choice. I just don`t like him and do I want to get up in the middle of the night and walk past his bedroom in my pajamas or nightgown or whatever?...Hell, no.

bjenna1 (968.8 days ago)
way to leave us all wondering if you or baby are indanger... Seriously. You know what to do...

angie2008 (968.8 days ago)
why wouldn`t you feel comfortable with your lo in her room next to her fil??? i would put her in the crib if it was me, but i don`t know the situation. if you are really uncomfortable, kick him out!

amberzon (968.8 days ago)
haha I like that...if only he would do ANYTHING.

abbyquiet (968.8 days ago)
make him take the crib apart and put it back together. :)

littlepixie (968.9 days ago)
I agree, if kicking him out isnt an option just set up the crib or get a travel cot for your room. I thought the same as hillary. . . I hope he isnt a creep, if he is PLEASE kick him out. And sorry if i have over stepped. . .

amberzon (968.9 days ago)
He is just a drunk and he is up all nite and he creeps me out. Not that I think he would do anything but he makes alot of noise and I know he would wake her up. He has lived with us for a really long time, years, he is working out something with his gf to move in with her cuz we need the second bedroom for the new baby. In the meantime, we are stuck with his loser butt.

hillaryandmikesbaby (968.9 days ago)
why dont you feel comfortable?? nothing like.. creepy right?? sorry if im overstepping my boundaries just curious.. i would go with your feeling and just take the crip apart IF you cant kick his bum out!!

amberzon (968.9 days ago)
Of course, kick the lazy bum out is my fav answer but not a possibility for now.



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