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Pregnancy-poll poll I am 36 weeks pregnant and have 3 more planned weeks of work. I am doing well physically, but mentally and emotionally it is really taking a toll on me. I come home exhausted and crying every night (my boss is not very understanding). I want to go ahead and leave but I will loose all my disability insurance if the doctor doesn`t order me to leave. Do you think he will put me on disability if I tell him what`s going on, or do i just have to suck it up? I am afraid so much stress is not good for me or the baby! What should i do?
(Pregnancy poll by snlt4hm, 948 days ago)
Tell your doctor what's up and he'll probably order the time off.
Tell your doctor just in case but he probably wont do anything.
Dont bother telling your doctor... if the stress is not putting you into early labor, they wont do anything.
Tell him and make him listen... lots of stress could be dangerous for you and the baby!


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Comments: 4

phooey (946 days ago)
If your doctor says no, can you use some sick leave or vacation time to leave early?

snlt4hm (947.4 days ago)
Thanks everyone!

hotpotaaaaato (948.3 days ago)
I know here in California a woman can go on disability at 36 weeks, or earlier with a doc approval. I would talk to your doc... they SHOULD understand.

hunnybunnysmama (948.3 days ago)
it wouldn`t hurt to ask... you should try and if your Dr. says `no` THEN worry about suckin` in up! :)



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