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nutnut (945.3 days ago)
wow thats pretty random for him to call. i gues the best you could do would tell him im sorry for your loss, and then make an excuse why you need to get off the phone. i wouldnt deliberatly be mean to him or try to hurt him in this time of grieving, but i wouldnt be there with open arms offering to hug him and dry his tear either. his new girlfriend who just lost the baby is where he needs to be and who he needs to be talking to. i bet she didnt know he called you crying. i think that would really hurt her if she knew and that is very selfish of him to do to her just bc he is greiving. i would avoid the whole situation if possible.

heathert (945.4 days ago)
i would leave it alone also that is there deal. i have a 16 y/o and a 27 y/o man better stay far away! Anyway any loss is sad but they can grieve together.

canadababy (945.4 days ago)
He probably feels `safe` talking to you because of your history.....leave it alone though :) I`d offer your condolences and stay away.

happyforest (945.4 days ago)
wow thats a situation i wouldnt wanna get myself into! talking to him may just bring back the pain of 5 yrs ago when he left you, and what are u supposed to think about the woman, yes, a miscarriage sucks and is a very terrible situation, and this is the woman who was with your hubby, a married man, and he left you for her! wtf...are u supposed to feel sorry for her? i would just stay out of it, theres nothing you could do to help

kottonkurlz (945.4 days ago)
eeeeewwwww. I would leave it alone and let that be the last conversation that we had about it. It was dumb of him to call you. You don`t have to call him back, you don`t have to call her and you can move on just like he did 5 years ago. Maybe I`m a bit harsh but how are you supposed to react to something like that? Let him cry on your shoulder about the woman that he left you with. I think not.



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