jenakers (910.8 days ago) If you are at home and he is at work, how can he control you? I think, either way.. Go to work, less time with baby and more freedom for you OR (what I might do) stay home and do whatever you want while he`s gone. Invite girl friends over, go to the pool or park. I`d tell him to `bite my crank` if he said anything but, that is ME. Good luck, girl. EditDelete
BethSilva (910.9 days ago) I agree in your case I would work. If it were me I would opt to take the 400/month form DH. :) I`m the type that like to stay home go for walks, non of my `friends` have kids, so really we have nothing in comon, So I think that`s where we are different. I don`t care about my `friends`. :) I agre if your happy your baby`s happy. I can`t wait to be a SAHM 3 more weeks! But I won`t be getting 400/month lol just the satisfaction of being woth my kids all day everyday. I can`t wait. Good luck with your decision EditDelete
AngieP (910.9 days ago) I would work in this case for sure. It will make you a happier person and in turn make your baby a happier person. You will still get to be with your baby tons. EditDelete
a-mum2b (910.9 days ago) Ok my daughter is 4 months old. Her daddy said he would give me 400 a month just to stay home and take care of her and the house. That icludes me payinf for formula, diapers, etc. BUt he is a controll freak. I cant really do anything at all. Would u rather have no life, or have someone watch ur baby 3 days a week? and get to see friends atleast at work and make about 1,000 a month? EditDelete