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Other-poll poll the first time you did the deed with your SO was it akward and were you nervous? (after your LO was born)
(Other poll by kylaleigh, 897 days ago)


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Comments: 6

nutnut (896.7 days ago)
yes only because i still had baby weight, and frank-n-whowho. it looked different bc of the tear although it was healed up i lost stiches so i still have a tear. i was more insecure about my body than anything else. i got over that though lol. i also was afraid of inconsistance. but it was fine. i didnt pee lol

megeanua (896.8 days ago)
not awkward or nervous at all.. haha he didn`t give me an option..woke me up and it had happened before I really knew what was going on. I am so happy he didn`t give me a chance to overthink it.

Mandy-n-Eoins-Peanut (896.9 days ago)
Wow..have to think back a long way for this one. My daughter is 9..and as I recall, yes I was absolutely s*itting it! haha. I was terrified that something would pop out or I`d end up tearing some more, you name it, I worried about it. After my son, 6 years ago..I didn`t have sex for 2 years lol but it was nothing to do with the birth or fear and a lot to do with the loss of attraction between me and my ex..I`m due #3 in a few weeks though, and I can imagine being scared to do it again lol.

loribb (896.9 days ago)
I was nervous and it was a little awkward the first time we did after my DD was born. It was all me though, hubby was fine with the whole thing.

Str8 As (896.9 days ago)
It wasn`t akward, but I didn`t like my body, stomach mainly. He was fine with it and once we started all other thoughts were out the window. I did have a problem with dryness...I had to use KY the first time.

kylaleigh (897 days ago)
I`m only asking because the big day is soon to come for me and me squeeze and i`m kinda nervous. Like it`s our first time LOL we`ve been together 3 years and this is our first baby together.. I`m 40 pounds overweight! He doesn`t seem to mind the weight, he`s a good guy with understanding. I`m just nervous! haha



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