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MelissaJoanne (888.6 days ago)
We were married 4 years before we had our baby. I can`t imagine not having that `us` time as just a married couple. We wanted to work on having a great marriage and spending lots of time together before bringing little people into it.

mommyof2soon (888.9 days ago)
We had my son, then got married about 7mo after he was born. I wouldn`t have changed a thing (except maybe waiting a little longer so I could have lost more of the baby weight!) I think if you know you love the person and will be with them, it doesn`t matter if you get married before or after the baby is born.

mimi2b2aboy (888.9 days ago)
oh i forgot to add that we got married at a court house.

mimi2b2aboy (888.9 days ago)
i actually got married while i was pregnant and i wish we would of waited until after she came. it was pretty much a forced marraige because my mom said if we were not married our baby would be a bastard and illigitamat. : (

mikey and cjs mommy (888.9 days ago)
we have a 16month old and number 2 due in Dec. We were going to get married in august but then found out we were expecting again in may...so we pshed it back as i dont want to be plump on my wedding day. lol. so we will probably get married early next year. i wouldnt change how we have done things....just would wish to have the same last name as my children on their birth cirtificates.

pc (888.9 days ago)
I`m glad I was married first on one hand because it`s the traditional way, and I can try to press the traditional way into my children. On the other hand, if I were to have my children first, I don`t know that I would have gotten married after seeing some of my husbands fatherly contributions - or lack thereof. I do love the guy but I WISH things were 50/50 with the repsonsibilities. Ok, I`ll even take 60/40 LOL!

hollysnum2 (888.9 days ago)
I got married after 2 years with my husband. He then was deployed for 4 months to the desert less than a month after the wedding. 5 weeks after he came home I found out I was pregnant. I dont regret it at all, but if I had a choice I would have enjoyed spending more time with it being just me and my husband before bringing a child in it. But I love my life!!! :)

mrsjmickens1 (889.2 days ago)
im not married to my childs father yet. were gonna wait until bout a year after the babies born. doesnt bother me one bit...ive been married before a piece of paper mean nothing really....if he didnt want to get married id live in sin forever.

hotpotaaaaato (889.3 days ago)
We had our daughter and got married when she was 4 months old. She was a bridesmaid. =) The only thing that bugged me was right after she was born I was really irrated that I didn`t have the same last name as my daughter... other than that I wouldn`t have changed anything.

crystalblueeyes (889.3 days ago)
i was always glad we got married and then 7 months later i got preg. i seriously think my grandmother woulda killed over if i had gotten preg outta wedlock lol it also gave us time to kinda get our ducks in a row too, that helps.

armymom (889.4 days ago)
my husband and I got married at ages 19 and 23. Been married for 3 years and have an 11 month old son. Nope wouldn`t change a thing or the order we did it in. We`re working on #2 now. =)

ibaheir2dathrone (889.4 days ago)
We got married first but didn`t have a wedding just a stand in front of the Preacher (my Uncle. 8 years later we had a nice church wedding and 2 of our kids were with us. It so so nice. Our dd was 3 and was a jr. bride she had a beautiful dress and veil. Our son was in a 3 piece tux(it was white with tails lol) he was 10 months old. i`m glad that we married first but it was nice to renew with them. We didn`t have a honeymoon the 1st time but the 2nd time I call it our `Familymoon` :o)

hunnybunnysmama (889.4 days ago)
not me, honestly... until I had a kid at 35, i was NOT interested in family life.



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