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california-mom (888.5 days ago)
I dont think theres anything wrong with it but we dont do it lol Never even occurred to me...

lilLOVEbug (888.5 days ago)
No way. I would hate if my SO did that to me so I would never do it. I have nothing to hide but it`s my personal stuff/space.

sheework (888.5 days ago)
I could careless I look at it like I have nothing to hid and neither does he. I don`t look at it like my privacy is being invaded, if he wants to know who I talked to more power to him. We don`t snoop anyways but like I said if you feel the need go for it I hope you get a good laugh out of my texts.

nmck (888.5 days ago)
My husband and I have respect for each other`s privacy. He will get something out of my purse, but he asks if I mind first, and I do the same type of thing. I trust him completely.

canadababy (888.5 days ago)
My DH and I are pretty private, even from eachother. Not because we don`t trust eachother though, we just need our own space, so no, we never go through eachother`s things. The closest I come to that is emptying his pockets when I do laundry, even then it all goes in a pile on the dresser but I never go through it to see what`s there.

larryslady (888.6 days ago)
I don`t consider it snooping or being nosey. We are placed together as one. There is no his stuff and my stuff. Why?? We live in the same house,sleep in the same bed, pay the same bills, and I have given you the rest of my life and children, but Im not good enough to look thru your things.Sorry I have a say so in EVRYTHING that goes and comes in my houe, And if a phone call come thru on a phone that is in my house then I can see who and what that phone call is about! There is no his and mine. SOrry. Now what might work in my house might not work in yours!!!

blondie9504 (888.6 days ago)
We also have nothing to hide so we go through eachothers stuff not to be nosy but just to make sure we don`t miss anything(like appointments and stuff that need to be done) I tried to hide my SO`s birthday present last month in my underwear droor under everything so he wouldn`t even think about looking. No sooner did I leave to go to the store he went to put my clothes away but there wasn`t enough room lol. So he took my stuff out to figure out what the problem was and found his present. Mind you, this man NEVER puts the laundry away so what made him do it that day, I have no clue. When I got home he asked me what was in my droor and I had forgotten I even bought anything. So he wouldn`t have gotten a bday present if he wouldn`t have snooped. Needless to say he was soooooo excited that he got new Ohio State football shirts and some new jeans lol.

nutnut (888.6 days ago)
no, its not ok to do this, it takes away a person`s individuality, and privacy. now with that said, i have done it in the past bc i am nosey by nature. sometimes we want to say its about trust, but really with me, its not that i dont trust, its that i am just too damn nosey for my own good. i have to know everything. its a control issue. its the way i am. i dont do it every day, and i dont go looking to do it. but if SO gets a text from a number i dont recognize i will not hesitate to ask who it is. no matter how hard i try, i will never be perfect, so this flaw isnt something major. at least thats how i see it. SO is the same way, so we both deal with it, bc we both know we do the same dang thing. we dont go through each other`s wallets, or through emails. but we have each other`s passwords. but if SO is chatting on line, i wouldnt think twice about reading over the shoulder if i felt like it. sometimes i dont bother, sometimes i do. maybe this sort of being nosey isnt the same as snooping looking for evidence of an affair. i feel like this, if SO wants to cheat, and i find out, SO can leave. Im strong enough to do this alone. I cant control what SO does and I dont try. i can only control what I do.

nutnut (888.6 days ago)
no, its not ok to do this, it takes away a person`s individuality, and privacy. now with that said, i have done it in the past bc i am nosey by nature. sometimes we want to say its about trust, but really with me, its not that i dont trust, its that i am just too damn nosey for my own good. i have to know everything. its a control issue. its the way i am. i dont do it every day, and i dont go looking to do it. but if SO gets a text from a number i dont recognize i will not hesitate to ask who it is. no matter how hard i try, i will never be perfect, so this flaw isnt something major. at least thats how i see it. SO is the same way, so we both deal with it, bc we both know we do the same dang thing. we dont go through each other`s wallets, or through emails. but we have each other`s passwords. but if SO is chatting on line, i wouldnt think twice about reading over the shoulder if i felt like it. sometimes i dont bother, sometimes i do. maybe this sort of being nosey isnt the same as snooping looking for evidence of an affair. i feel like this, if SO wants to cheat, and i find out, SO can leave. Im strong enough to do this alone. I cant control what SO does and I dont try. i can only control what I do.



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