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andriette and christians mummy liz`s poll Show results | Hide results


Other-poll poll Dont u just get so pissed when u are friendly and always comment back to ppl on here and give advice but NEVER get just a simple Thank you or anything,noooo comments on ur pics(giving lovely comments on their pics and blogs) whatsoever?Btw this person is always on so there is time to comment back.
(Other poll by andriette and christians mummy liz, 1351 days ago)
Yesss i get so annoyed!
No doesnt bother me
Mmmm now that u mention it


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Comments: 9

Babyloves (1350.8 days ago)
It bothers me sometimes but I just wont bother commenting next time!

Str8 As (1350.9 days ago)
I have someone who sends blogs frequently and I comment, but she has never commented on any of mine. It never really bothered me though. Just the way it is I guess.

nutnut (1351 days ago)
ohhh so its not just a random person, its someone you consider a friend on the site? that would make it more understandable why you would feel this way. i would just have a talk with her. maybe she didnt mean to make it seem like she`s brushing you off. i try to give others the benifit of the doubt although more times than not i realize that i shouldnt have lol. =)) i hope you can sort through this. no need to apologize for the rant. everyone needs to rant sometimes =)

andriette and christians mummy liz (1351 days ago)
Sorry i cant tell the whole story coz i dont wanna start a fight but theres much more to this,i dont expect anyone to thank me either.Theres just some more to this story but im gonna confront her.Thanx

sheework (1351 days ago)
I never really thought about it but I don`t expect anyone to personally thank me for a message. I don`t with my real life friends either I mean when we have a good talk they don`t call me later to say thank you or even at the end of the call say it so why I would I expect it to be any different on here.

andriette and christians mummy liz (1351 days ago)
No i mean someone on ur friendsnetwork u make an effort with and symphatize with and then get a bland`oh ok`!

andriette and christians mummy liz (1351 days ago)
Nutnut this didnt bother me until 2 hours or so ago,its just one person and has been on my friendsnetwork for 1 and half.Something she said that pissed me off.Sorry for the rant:-)

canadababy (1351 days ago)
Never even crossed my mind :) I`ve written my share of polls and don`t thank personally, maybe just the odd time it was really great advice. And I answer many polls, never expect a personal reply.

nutnut (1351 days ago)
doesnt bother me. i like putting my two cents in. i dont expect anyone to thank me personally. although when someone does, it is appreciated, even if i dont not reply to the thankyou. sometimes i feel maybe if thanking someone personally could cause the person to feel obligated to reply to me for saying thankyou, then i would feel obligated to continue to reply which can really get out of control if youre trying to reply to everyone. a simple `thanks ladies` on the post itself is definatly acceptable,and appreciated, though not expected.



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