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nutnut (879.8 days ago)
yes mumbo i agree, sometimes not having a father in the child`s life is what`s best for that particular child. family is family and comes in all types and sizes. its not who they are raised by but how they are raised up.

hunnybunnysmama (880.3 days ago)
IT SEEMS LIKE YOU ARE YELLING AT US WHEN YOU TYPE IN ALL CAPS!!! I THINK IT MAY BE A SMALL SOURCE OF FEATHER RUFFLING!

nutnut (880.4 days ago)
oops Poll not pole LOL

nutnut (880.4 days ago)
yes i am going through the same thing. this is our second child. we already have a 7 year old little girl. i have been with my partner for 14 years. i wasnt sure what you were asking in your first pole. so same as i stated on the first pole, so long as your and your partner are providing a safe, loving,nurturing enviornment for the baby, then more power to you! my daughter is 7 and loves her `daddy` to death. and she is a very happy well rounded functional little girl.

daisymae (880.5 days ago)
Providing a loving, safe, healthy environment is what`s most important for a child. Also showing that child that you have a loving, respectful, and trustworthy relationship with your SO, whether a man or a woman! Many people who are against a homosexual relationship for the sole reason that it`s 2 people of the same sex are, unfortunately, in a unloving, untrustworthy, and disrespectful relationship but justify that it`s a ``good`` relationship because it`s a ``traditional`` lifestyle. I met a lesbian couple yesterday who are AMAZING parents to their children! I don`t know all the details on how they gave birth to their children, but the family that they provide for these children in unbelievably healthy and loving. They have a son and a daughter.

Alexandria- (880.6 days ago)
I agree that people are immature about this issue and that they need to grow up. Who gives a crap who is with who and who is having babies. As long as you can provide and love the baby that is all that matters. You can tell that you guys love eachother and that you both want this baby and are going to make it work. I think people need to leave you guys alone. I think that gay people should be allowed to get married and have children. I think it is couragous that you are going through this and the best of luck you you and your baby`s mom. And don`t get wrapped up in stupid people`s attitudes.

sheework (880.6 days ago)
I don`t think it matters what you are as long as you are a good parent. You and unfortunately your child be will faced with judgments during your life, you just need to talk to your kid and let them know that not everyone is going to be accepting of you and your partner. I think as long as you are open and understanding with your child you will be fine.

mtnwoman(shelly) (880.6 days ago)
I have to admit that i was young and naive once. I had a friend that basically had 2 moms growing up. I made some comments to her once that I now totally regret! We are raised in such a judgemental/traditional world that it is hard to break out of the mold that we were raised in. Now that I personally have gay friends, I would support them in what ever choices they made! I wish you and your family the best!

Str8 As (880.6 days ago)
I think all of the women that commented on your previous poll answered it honestly according how the question was presented. I support you as a mom as I said before as I have with other mothers. Your preference is your preference. I am on here to provide support and to receive it as well. So if you have questions about pregnancy, labor, new borns, pains and even want to vent about your SO, that is why I am here.

robynder (880.6 days ago)
I defintaly see where that would come from some people are a bit judgemental not just on this site but in life. I know it sucks and I wish it would get better. I hate to have to teach my kids that sometimes what they hear others say is RIDICULOS and to never say or treat people like that.

babyMammaLG (880.6 days ago)
THANK YOU ( MUCH BETTER THEN THE OTHER POLL COMMENTS)

babyMammaLG (880.6 days ago)
THIS POLE WAS MADE IN DIFFEENT WORDS SO YALL DNT GET ME CONFUSED WITH SOMEONE WHO JUST WANTS ATTENTION.... GAY LIFESTYLE IS STILL A SENSATIVE MATTER IN THE WORLD TODAY... I WOULD LIKE TO FIND SOMEONE WHOS GOING THROUGH OR WENT THROUGH THE SAMETHING... I DONT WANT ATTENTION BECAUSE OF MY SEXUALITY JUST THOUGHTS ON HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT MY BABYGIRL BEING BORN INTO A LIFESTYLE LIKE THIS ONE.

robynder (880.6 days ago)
I am not going through the same thing at all, but I completely support you and your parner in becoming parents just as I would ANY one else on this site. I see no differnce in if you were with a man or a woman it has no concern to me just so long as you are happy.



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