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Other-poll poll so i have two friends who are pregnant, and i have been giving them both stuff as i decide we dont need to keep it anymore... do you think it would be innappropriate to ask either if they plan on breastfeeding and want my pump? because i have a double electric breast pump that is in really good condition and works really well and if either of them could use it i would be more than happy to include it with the stuff i am giving them since i never really pumped much, always just fed straight from the breast; i just dont want to make anyone feel uncomfortable...
(Other poll by courtenay, 873 days ago)
yes you could ask, its an expensive item they wouldnt have to buy themselve if they wanted it and it is a nice gesture
no you shouldnt ask if they want it because that is weird


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Comments: 6

nutnut (872.4 days ago)
i would ask them bc i thought the one part is disposable so they could just replace that with thier own. i would just say `i have a breast pump too, i rarely used it, did you want or need it?` or something like that. i wouldnt be offended at all.

samzgirl (872.6 days ago)
I would offer it. The part that actually touches the breast and milk on most pumps is disposable right?

littlemissfatty!! (872.6 days ago)
i have been given a 2nd hand pump from a friend and am very grateful, it has saved me a good £30 so i wud def offer it to them :-D as long as its sterilized it shud b fine x

hillaryandmikesbaby (872.6 days ago)
i wish someone would offer me a electric pump lol go for it

AngieP (872.7 days ago)
I would have loved it if a friend gave me one. It wouldn`t have crossed my mind to be offended.

graciesmomma (872.7 days ago)
I would definitely offer it. I borrowed my friend`s expensive breast pump when my daughter was born. It was nice not to have that expense!



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