akthel (850 days ago) If you feel you are ready for another baby and can get your hubby on board with the idea go for it. It doesn`t make you a bad person at all to want to add to your family:o) This is my third back to back pregnancy - we started late in the baby making business:o) I was worried in the beginning that attention would be taken away from my first LO if I had them too close together, but it wasn`t the case at all. When we have our third baby they will all still be diapers - LOL! We are potty training the oldest, but I don`t find it hard to be changing two sets of diapers, what is one more! As chaotic as it is around here at times, I couldn`t imagine my life any different now. You adjust and make time for everyone:o) It all works out in the end:o)
jenakers (850.1 days ago) Take the extra time and enjoy your girls. You got ants in your pants girl!
nutnut (850.1 days ago) hubby has a good point. my brother and i were exactly 12 months apart and i know it had to be hard on my mother at first. its definatly not easy being pregnant trying to take care of a little one. my daughter is 7 and there`s some days i tell her `kiddo you have to tie your own shoes sweety i cant bend down that far` LOL. just the little things i guess. i would wait if it were me. i wouldnt want to pressure hubby or make my wants come before his and whats best for the entire family. i think theres definatly room for compromise. but as far as missing being pregnant. thats so normal when the baby gets to be about a year old. i went through that after my daughter turneda year, but i got over it quick LOL. whats meant to be will always find a way. youre not a bad person.
hopefully3 (850.2 days ago) It makes a lot of sense to wait and hubby has a point. But people do it all of the time. i think what matters most is that your family is ready for it and its the right time for you all. Good luck hun! Maybe talk to dh tell him how you feel and come to a decision together!