blondie9504 (843.4 days ago) I ask this because my So and I decided we didn`t want kids because he had 3 already from his ex-wife. We took precaution and did pretty good until I was on the pill for a while and we got pregnant. Sadly we lost that baby but that made us rethink the situation and we decided to have one child of our own. She just turned 12 weeks old :)