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sept1baby`s poll Show results | Hide results


Other-poll poll What would you do if you were told that your child care provider did illegal drugs and around your child?
(Other poll by sept1baby, 19 days ago)


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Comments: 22

christina76 (18.6 days ago)
remove my child instantly, and turn them in.

brooklyn143 (18.6 days ago)
I would prolly black out from anger! and i would have to stop myself from putting my hands around their neck!...omg we are suppose to trust these ppl w/out childrens lives!...Booo to ppl who put themselves before innocent babies/children! there are plently of other professions out there, and yes i would call the police and make sure she/he never watches kids...wow im shocked at the fact that doing coke as a mother isnt a big deal!!!!!!....EXCEPT IF YOU GET BAD SHIT AND DIE OR OVER DOSE! oh yeah that doesnt do anything bad for your kid! they will be just fine w/1 parent or in some cases NO PARENTS, thats an incredibly selfish thing to do as a mother! your number one is to take care of and protect your children next would be take care of yourself so your child has a REAL parent in their lives! just cuz some ppl admit it and tell others that do it too doesnt mean its right! ....sickening ! there are some things you have to let go after becoming a parent its not all about you anymore!!

luvbeingamom (18.7 days ago)
First, i would never let my child with that person again. second, I would press charges. third, i would prob sue.

Khloes Mommy (18.8 days ago)
ANYONE did drugs around my child there would be HELL to pay! ESPECIALLY if they are supposed to be watching her!!! In NO situation is this ok!

Goldenmama37 (18.8 days ago)
pull kid out and notify the authorities.

hopefully3 (18.8 days ago)
What makes some people think that its ok to do drugs and be a mother??? Why again do they take your children away for this exact thing if its ok? i am sure this comment is going to get alot of heat but you know what i am going to stick up for what i believe in! And if you are to selfish and immature to quit doing drugs after you are a mother than dont have children for gods sake! i sure as hell wouldnt let you around my children! Or any for that matter!

My4lovelygirlies (18.8 days ago)
i would definately call the police, I would make a huge deal out of it. Being on drugs is a very unsafe environment for a child, who knows what could have happend to your child while in their care. Or, what could happen to someone else's.

kimmarie (18.8 days ago)
Contact DCFS.

jendez (18.8 days ago)
I`d just find a new provider and let them know why I stopped using them. I wouldn`t go to the police and make a big deal out of it though. You could ruin someone`s life by doing that, and if they`re a productive member of society, what`s the point of trying to ruin their life. To each their own, but not with my kid.

brendalee (18.8 days ago)
Stop using them. Did drugs in general though? Nothing. You`d be suprised at how many people do drugs, a few of my high school teachers we`re recreational users. Theres a mom on here who I (as well as many many other users) have a lot of respect for who admited to me she does coke, just not when her children are around. I`m not going to hold it against someone for doing drugs, and try to send them to jail for it. As long as they don`t do it around my kid I`m fine with them doing drugs. If they ever did I`d simply never go to them again.

xela (18.9 days ago)
I`d find a new child care provider and call the police- this person could be taking care of other children- lives, well being and safety are at a huge risk.

nutnut (18.9 days ago)
i would get my child out of that place and report them to the proper autorities. you dont want to confront her thats for sure. you dont know how she is going to react. if this is in a daycare setting and not a private sitter, i wouldnt hesitate to get the authorities involved. i would pull my kid out of her care immediatily and if i had proof i would report her. if its just hear say, id have to still pull my child just in case. but i wouldnt confront her on it.

christinaswar (18.9 days ago)
Call the police.

abbyquiet (18.9 days ago)
you could go to the police, or call crime stoppers, then probably find out who she works for, i think that if they`re qualified they have to work for someone, talk to them. pull out my child. i don`t know if i`d actually confront the girl since people on drugs can do any number of crazy things, including attack you or straight up deny it. and if you know it`s true you don`t need all that drama.

mare2fillys (18.9 days ago)
I`d go to police too.

hopefully3 (18.9 days ago)
This is very serious! i would pull my child out and go to the police. They can direct you on what you need to do. What is your proof that she is doing this? So sorry hun this is awful!

sept1baby (18.9 days ago)
I just dont know how to handle this, should I go to the hospital and put my child through the pain of having a blood test to make sure before confronting her or just confront her oh what? I dont know what to do.

sept1baby (18.9 days ago)
I just dont know how to handle this, should I go to the hospital and put my child through the pain of having a blood test to make sure before confronting her or just confront her oh what? I dont know what to do.

Holly28 (18.9 days ago)
I would stop using that person as a childcare provider. Obviously, they are not very responsible and this is a matter of my child`s safety and security

5against1 (18.9 days ago)
i would do everything in my power to make sure she was never allowed to watch children again.

hollysnum2 (18.9 days ago)
I would definitely remove my child and then call the police to let them know. It is way too dangerous to let it slide by! What if a child ingested those drugs then died from an overdose.

charlihadley (18.9 days ago)
i would be terrified, that my child would get into the childcare providers drugs and injest them. id be infuriated



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