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Pregnancy-poll poll HELP PLEASE my fella has now been gone for 5 days on the drink leaving me with no money no baby milk nothing, hes only been back 2 weeks after going for a whole week last time. his clothes are outside the front door, i dont know what to do. what would you do?????
(Pregnancy poll by kelly.m, 828 days ago)
leave the stuff out there, you dont deserve the stress and worry all the time
take it back in and dont be stupid, you know hes sorry really
leave him dangling for another few days on thehope he gets the message he cant do this
roll over take it on the chin, you dont want to bring up 2 kids under 2 on your own


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Comments: 8

Jadens*MaMa (827.7 days ago)
You can find someone else......Im bout to come over there and kick his ass. I dont know you but that pisses me the f offf. What a jerk you dont need to be around that either do your kids...leaving you with no milk... oh hell no

jenakers (827.8 days ago)
Contact Alanon for professional help. Wheather he`s on the curb or not, it is something to help you understand alcoholism, as you and your child will be dealing with him on some level for a lifetime.

JMendez (827.8 days ago)
Kick his alcoholic @ss to the curb! Why would you want your kids to see or deal with that kind of absurd behavior. Someone else will come along who will treat you like you should be treated.

Angel-baby (827.8 days ago)
I agree- change the locks and throw all his stuff on the front lawn. No father needs to be spending days/weeks out drinking and not coming home to take care of his family.. You do deserve better and CAN do much better on your own without him.. Good Luck.. I know it will be hard but you have to do this for yourself and your children.

california-mom (827.8 days ago)
Take it to the goodwill =D Not sure if you have girls or boys but remember hes not the man you want your daughter marrying or your son becoming. Not a good example of a good man.

krystasappleseed (827.8 days ago)
I know it will be hard but do you want him being an example for your kids. Kids minic what they see and if you cant be strong for you be strong for them. If he is really sorry he will take steps to change his ways no matter what. whethe thats conseling, church, AA.. whatever it takes. you dont need the added stress of adding one more `child` to your already busy crazy life. best of luck and I hope he grows up and realizes what he is destroying.

nutnut (827.8 days ago)
change the locks leave his shit on the curb. get help for you and the baby. you should be able to get emergency food. i would go to the welfare office and tell them your situation. also check with your local churches. do you have family that will help you get some food for you and your kids? If he`s done this time and time again to you, and hasnt gotten himself help, or changed or even tried to change and take responsibility, he probably wont ever change. he isnt giving you any help. you would probably have it easier without him. if the kids are his, he`s got to pay child support, so at least you would be in control of that money for your kids. you could get govt assistance for awhile if you need. hopefully you have family to help you out in the begining, but if you dont, there are definatly other forms of help out there. good luck to you. hope everything works out. hang in there.

bluejeans (827.8 days ago)
I wouldnt just leave his stuff out there I would destroy it.



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