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EandTsmum (827 days ago)
Only if I was asked to be there. My brother and his wife just had baby number 5 and they asked my mum to be there this time. She`s never seen a birth and hasn`t shut up about it since lol.

luvbeingamom (827.1 days ago)
I would never ask to be there, but if my daughter (i have 2 boys, so not an issue) wanted me there i would be there. Otherwise, no. if it was my daughter-in-law, same thing. If she asked b/c she wants me there, then no problem, but if she doesn`t ask, then no.

jenakers (827.1 days ago)
ONLY if I was asked. I would NOT be offended either way.

LKLmama (827.1 days ago)
ONLY if my daughter wanted me there. I would NEVER ask to be there!

california-mom (827.1 days ago)
I honestly think I couldnt have my babies without my mom there. I hope my daughters and I are just as close and shell want and need me there as much as I want and need MY mom there.

hollysnum2 (827.2 days ago)
It would depend on what my daughters wanted. When I gave birth to my DD my Hubby, my mama, and my best friend were there. It was wonderful to have my mama be there to support me! She didn`t see all of my womanly parts, but she wiped my forehead and was my strength. When the pain got to be too much she would tell me what to do and even in labor I couldn`t disobey her! Lol

RobinG (827.2 days ago)
I believe it is for mom to be and dad to be, not me. I didnt have anyone but my hubby there and would expect the same of my kids when they have their kids. I will wait til it is visiting time to meet my grandchild :) I dont feel the delivery room is for anyone but mom and dad/partner to be but thats just me :)

MaddoxAndAverysMama (827.2 days ago)
I would do whatever the mama wanted to do... I didn`t let anyone even be in the hospital while I had my son, then my in laws came to visit ASAP, but my mom was too busy to come until the next day... now when I have my daughter my MIL will come stay and help me because my mom is a piece of *@#$ so... thats that

ArcticArlz (827.2 days ago)
I think it`s weird, everyone`s different and I respect that, but I can`t imagine anyone with me except my husband.

phooey (827.2 days ago)
My mom didn`t want to be in the room with me, and I didn`t want her there either bc, like mumbo, I didn`t want anyone to see me in pain, especially my mother. But... I would really like to be there when my daughter gives birth. However, I won`t impose if she doesn`t want me there.

adkinsrus07 (827.2 days ago)
Most of the time it seems to just be the father of the baby and the women having the child. But these days alot of girls deliverign want atleast there own mom there too- even dad- but alot of women have a good relationship with there MIL. For my delivery I invited (for in the room) my hubby, my mom, my MIL and my MIL`s mom (my hubby;s grandmother which is basically his mom) but only my mom and hubby got to c himcome out- the others came right in as he was getting vitals b/c of the distance. I will have them in the room again.

Str8 As (827.2 days ago)
IF I had/have a son, I would go to the hospital, but I would not go into the room unless my DIL and I had a really good relationship or she didn`t have a mother. I will DEF be there when my girls give birth, no if`s and`s or but`s! My MIL came to the hospital with my first and was mad at me and my mom because she wanted to be in the room. First off, we are not cool like that and secondly, I am NOT telling my mother to leave so you can be happy! I do not need anyone else looking in my sugar walls! It is weird enough for my mother to see it when it is `mature`!



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