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mommykate (825.5 days ago)
While I was pregnant I swore my next child would be adopted and I would never have another biological child again. Things change with time. Now I desperately want three children, I would like to adopt one, but I also want to relive pregnancy and birth :)

nutnut (825.6 days ago)
i swore i didnt want anymore after i had my daughter and here i am pregnant again 7 years later. anything can happen. its not something i would push on him right now. i would just let it go and see what happens. i was seriously adamant no more babies. but like i said things changed for me, and so did my desire to have one more. he doesnt sound totally set in his way by what youre saying, i would definatly wait a little bit longer. maybe when the twins start preschool or nursery school. or maybe before, you never know.

t555rm (825.6 days ago)
Since the two of u had decided before to wait for a few years till u have another baby, I say don`t bring up the topic until a year or two from now. Chances are he might change his mind by then. He`s probably just overwhelmed with everything now. If it were me I`d just totally `forget` about it n casually broach on the issue a year later. Cos the more I talk abt it with him the more irritated he`ll be n that would for sure ruin our chances in the future.

t555rm (825.6 days ago)
Since the two of u had decided before to wait for a few years till u have another baby, I say don`t bring up the topic until a year or two from now. Chances are he might change his mind by then. He`s probably just overwhelmed with everything now. If it were me I`d just totally `forget` about it n casually broach on the issue a year later. Cos the more I talk abt it with him the more irritated he`ll be n that would for sure ruin our chances in the future.

Luis and Rosalanis Mami (825.6 days ago)
The same thing happened with me and my husband before, once i start mentioning babies he feels very pressured that i am going to want another one right away, when the only real thing i want is for him to leave the option open for us, he kept saying no more kids no more kids after our first and our second child, i have learned that if i stop bugging him about it and not make it too serious he will open up, he is now saying he is considering a third child in the next few years which is great cause now that he has said that i have not had the desire to talk about it again anytime soon, which in turn is making us less stressed out about that subject. I think your husband is probably feeling pressured because you already have 18 month old twins and you just saw a newborn, which probably makes him think you will want another one sooner than later. I say drop the subject for awhile and then bring it up casually later (when there are no new babies around) lol he will come around i`m sure. Good Luck! :-)



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