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mama-dearest (120.9 days ago)
I know what you mean. My 2 and 4 year old fight literally ALL DAY with each other over things that don`t even make sense! I feel awful half the time b/c I feel like I`m constantly on my 2 yo (going thru terrible twos) since she is usually the instigator. My 4 yo really tries to behave and help out but even when she says the nicest thing to the 2 yo...she screams back at her and tell her `leave me alone` and `don`t talk to me` and sometimes she`ll just haul off and smack her or throw a toy at her....its so horrible and frustrating to me...

happyem (120.9 days ago)
thanks will try that with them, its just so hard with them not getting along. had my daughter 12 weeks ago 8 weeks early and she spent 7 weeks in hospital which was really hard on all of us, dont wanna constantly be on their backs just want them to get along better

mama-dearest (121 days ago)
Remind them how to solve things without arguing... which I`m sure you`ve done... my mom used to make me and my sisters stare at each other and go back and forth saying someting nice about the other until we each said 10 things to each other... she supervised to make sure we actually did it...but we HATED DOING IT!!! It fixed us real quick.



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