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kinta (808.6 days ago)
Mines gone! I still try and do it even if i dont even feel like it really. But I dont think I`ve enjoyed it since before i was pregnant. i just dont feel sexy, i feel tired, i am thinking about the next thing ill have to clean, cook, feed, wash, dry, put to sleep that I cant get in the mood. I also feel like the more he persists the more i dont want to do it haha. I feel like a little kid and ur parents keep asking u to do something and u dont do it because they keep telling u. I`ve also only ever had TWO orgasms in my ENTIRE life. So I think I`m just like a complete freak.

lauraluvbug (814.3 days ago)
i have read that breastfeeding has a lot to do with fulfilling certain intimacy needs, obviously not sexual and that sometimes women that are breastfeeding feel a closeness with their child, and feeling so exposed by breastfeeding it changes the sexual relationship with their partner, it is completely normal.

jeff (814.3 days ago)
mine came back as soon as i started getting my monthly cycle again... 5.5 months (i was still breastfeeding exclusively)

smiling politely (814.4 days ago)
i really believe that husbands and wives should not (without verrry good reason) turn down sex. so i guess its one of those things where you might not feel in the mood beforehand, but if your partner is understanding, and there is plenty of foreplay, you will get into it :D

shesxchaotic (814.4 days ago)
I never lost it. I`m EBF our 2 month old and I cried because we had to wait the 6 weeks to have sex. Since then we have sex a few times a week. Maybe it depends on the person?

california-mom (814.5 days ago)
Mine never left with my 3 I nursed (1 for 2 years, 1 for 19 months and this one is 10 months).

t555rm (814.5 days ago)
Oh dear, I know what u mean! It took me 5 months pp to let my hubby get intimate with me even in the slightest way. I had NO sex drive. And then another 5 months after that to actually enjoy it like before. Mind u my son is 13 months and I still nurse him altho it`s only like 2-3 times a day and for very short sessions. Maybe 10 min max. But that has definitely made things better for me. Guess what got me into it again? Soft porn. Dh and I were flicking thru channels and started watching it together. And never was a fan of it before LOL but it sure got me going. This was 2 months ago. Now on the days when I just know we`ll be having sex (like weekends for instance) I just try to get into the mood, think about it a lot, maybe even watch a little something together. It seems like I NEED to do all that to actually want sex these days.

debsandgrace (814.5 days ago)
My dd is 14mths olny managed to bf till she was 6wks and mine still hasn`t come back. Came back 4mths pp with my first bf till she was 12mths and 12wks pp with my second bf till he was 10mths.

RobinG (814.5 days ago)
Sadly my oldest is 14 and I lost it 14 years ago ~ it never came back ~ sorry ((()))

Angel-baby (814.6 days ago)
Sex what is that??? I am in the same boat as you ladies!!!!

Babii Anberlin (814.6 days ago)
tell me about it! i feel so ugly cuz all my stretch marks or should i say tiger stripes lol theres no sparks flyin here cuz i`m too self conscious which just adds to the lack of libido but i plan on doing what the lady did on this site stretchmarksecret.org

armymom (814.6 days ago)
took me 3 months after breastfeeding to feel somewhat normal again.. but we still have very little sex cause I feel ugly still. 13 months pp now.



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