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Stephanie01 (812.2 days ago)
You know what i dont care. My bf is covered in tattoos hes got 2 full sleeves his neck is tattood you name it. I dont like dressing like a granny i am young and full of energy. I dont know why you should be judged on the way that you look. I think you look great i love the tattoos i also wanna do my fingers but BF wont allow it. The most important thing is that the baby is healthy and looked after. Who cares what you look like.

shesxchaotic (813.4 days ago)
Kind of yes. I`m 21 and my husband is 23. I have tattoos and I don`t dress any different now that we`ve had our son. We still goof around and joke with eachother. Our son is our life but I still dress `in style` or just how I like I guess.

babyluv843 (813.4 days ago)
no matter what people have pre conceived notions based on looks and it sucks!

nutnut (813.4 days ago)
lol i know if i walked into a pto meeting the mom`s would probably gasp or stop and look then whisper. which is probably ok with me bc im judging them just by assuming they will view me a particular way. people always assess situations without even knowing they are doing it. so seeing is typically the first way we gauge the world and that includes the people in it. so long as no one is outright rude to me based on the fact that i have piercings, tattoos, and i need to fix my teeth (waiting until after i have the baby and they have gotten so bad). then so be it. im a good person and im good to all the kids in the neighborhood and the parents who take the time to get to know me, realize this despite what i look like atm. while i would like to look better, there are other things that have to come first for me and that is the safety of my kids, and their well-being. =) so my teeth will wait (going to cost me about 5k to have them all done). but i know that people initally are take back by it and assume im white trash, dirt poor, or on crack. ive never done drugs btw, im not rich, but we pay our way, we just make sacrafices so i can be a SAHM. i got my tattoos a long time ago. i dont regret them at all. but i always feel i need to explain my whole life story or at least explain to ppl what happened to my teeth, bc yes people have out right asked me if its from drugs or something or if i was in an accident. needless to say the ones who ask if its from drug use i dont speak to. lol oh well such is life. im an awesome person to have on your side thats all i have to say. =)i try not to judge ppl on their looks and usually i dont bc of my situation.

nutnut (813.4 days ago)
lol i know if i walked into a pto meeting the mom`s would probably gasp or stop and look then whisper. which is probably ok with me bc im judging them just by assuming they will view me a particular way. people always assess situations without even knowing they are doing it. so seeing is typically the first way we gauge the world and that includes the people in it. so long as no one is outright rude to me based on the fact that i have piercings, tattoos, and i need to fix my teeth (waiting until after i have the baby and they have gotten so bad). then so be it. im a good person and im good to all the kids in the neighborhood and the parents who take the time to get to know me, realize this despite what i look like atm. while i would like to look better, there are other things that have to come first for me and that is the safety of my kids, and their well-being. =) so my teeth will wait (going to cost me about 5k to have them all done). but i know that people initally are take back by it and assume im white trash, dirt poor, or on crack. ive never done drugs btw, im not rich, but we pay our way, we just make sacrafices so i can be a SAHM. i got my tattoos a long time ago. i dont regret them at all. but i always feel i need to explain my whole life story or at least explain to ppl what happened to my teeth, bc yes people have out right asked me if its from drugs or something or if i was in an accident. needless to say the ones who ask if its from drug use i dont speak to. lol oh well such is life. im an awesome person to have on your side thats all i have to say. =)i try not to judge ppl on their looks and usually i dont bc of my situation.

kinta (813.5 days ago)
I think people do judge. I am 23 but I look a lot younger than I am and I think people look at me and think im too young to be a mum. I`m not the richest person in the world and i dont buy expensive clothes so i think sometimes i look and bit daggy...and my partner and I both have black hair and he looks a bit dodgy too. But neither of us drink or do anything and we are really focused on our family. I guess u just have to prove people wrong!

smiling politely (813.5 days ago)
i do. but not for their clothing/hairstyle. i judge people based on their expression when they talk to/interact with their children. if they are demeaning toward or speaking in a derogatory way, i assume they are a bad parent. my husband has tattoos, i think they are pretty mainstream nowadays anyway, and generally speaking they dont make the average person look down on the tattooed.

marli (813.5 days ago)
My husband and I are the same way. He has two half sleeves and I have 2 visible tatoos AND we`re 9 years apart. He`s 32 and i`m 23. That alone gets us `judged` alot. He`s active duty military and I was, I feel like I have to explain my whole life story to people for them to accept me as a parent/wife.

angelinarichter (813.5 days ago)
ha, yes, I would too if they were dirty and so were their kids, no brushed hair, etc, but I am talking about style, my boyfriend and I, especially him, have tattoos and I feel like society will short my children based on our appearance and treat them differently even though I have worked in a doctors office since I was 17 and will be a RN by the time I am 21, I feel like no matter my achievements, my children will always be looked down on because of their `unique` parents

courtenay (813.5 days ago)
i dont personally but thats probably because i dont judge based on looks, and i mean style wise. now if someone was absolutely filthy and their kids were like that to then yes i think i would judge.



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