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alugo (807.3 days ago)
I think there is a difference between men that are cheaters and men that can make a mistake or have a lapse in judgement. When I got married I did so not wanting to be with anyone else ever again. If something were to happen and my other half wanted to make it work and I did - we would. It is hard to get over mistrust and there was a time in our marraige where he came close and didn`t. As I said I think there is a difference and everyone and every relationship is different. It is important though to realise how you feel - because some women do not let themselves forgive - which isn`t healthy for the relationship if they want to make it work.

luvbeingamom (807.3 days ago)
No i don`t think so. No matter what, when that person is late coming home, or `out with friends`, even if it is innocent the other will always have in the back of their mind, i wonder.... i personally could never stay with someone who cheated on me.

military~mommy (807.3 days ago)
I stayed with my husband after he cheated. It took a long time, but over the years we have rebuilt the trust in our relationship and I DON`T have to wonder what he is doing everytime he goes out. I love my husband and my family, and am so grateful I didn`t pack up and leave. Making the decision to salvage our marriage was hard, and we both had to work at it. I had to work to forgive him, and he had to work to earn my trust. He didn`t go out without me, he didn`t get guys nights, he wasn`t allowed to be alone with ANY woman, and he had to be there for my bitchy comments and breakdowns. But in the end we found our place again. For the record, he didn`t have an afair. He was on a business trip, got drunk, had a one night stand, and confessed to me when he got home even though if he had kept his mouth shut I never would have know. It was his honesty more than anything that saved us.

brendalee (807.5 days ago)
I was cheated on while I sat alone at my ex`s house, and he went over to his neighbors house and had sex with her. We broke up and I could care less that it happened.

jekajoy (807.5 days ago)
I have been cheated on. I wasn`t able to stay with my partner and recover, but I did heal. If my spouse cheated on me, I don`t think I`d ever fully recover or trust again.

hunnybunnysmama (807.5 days ago)
I wouldn`t. If my man were stupid enough to throw away his family for some ass he doesn`t deserve us.

5against1 (807.5 days ago)
not a chance. every time they r late or walk away to talk on the phone, its always gonna in th bak of ur mind.

KR (807.5 days ago)
No. I dont think they can. I for one have been cheated on and have moved on from my relationship but not the act. It left me questioning other acts i guess. Or maybe they can but are always more aware of signs?

armymom (807.5 days ago)
everyone is different.. but for me, no.. I couldn`t and I don`t think my husband could either if it were the other way around.



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