chevychic96`s poll Show results | Hide results

mtnwoman(shelly) (806.3 days ago)
`LOVE AND RESPECT` by Dr. Emerson. Awesome, and different than they typical `love eachother` stuff. My parents gave it to me after my first marriage failed. I can look back and see things that I did to fuel the `divorce` fire, but I also know that getting out was the best move. This time around things are much different and I also make it a point to randomly tell my husband, `I respect you`. Very powerful words to a man!

MichelleMc(pink!) (806.4 days ago)
`The Five Love Languages` is awesome and an easy read. `For Men Only` and `For Women Only` have a lot of good info on how men and women think differently and how you can learn to interact with each other better with the knowledge you gain.

Str8 As (806.4 days ago)
Fireproof is a good movie and take the Love Dare. It is hard, but well worth the effort!

heathert (806.6 days ago)
Hi Chevy! Same boat a 3 week old and 17 month old. I agree find time for each other and I guess just give it time. Baby just came and they both require lots of time. I think you also have older kid(s) like me too and that takes time running them, homework and making time for them as well. Surely things will return to some what normal in a few months. Good luck. Sorry I dont know of any books.

linzigenavieve (806.6 days ago)
Being parents is hard, especially with your kids that close and young. Just try to remember that it is just a phase and will pass! Fireproof is also an awesome movie like everyone is saying!

pc (806.6 days ago)
I don`t have any advice, but came here to read some for myself. Just want you to know you`re not alone. Good luck sweetie!

kaysfamily (806.6 days ago)
Is there anyone around as in family or close friends that can take care of the kids here and there even for a few hours, so you can spend time together. When kids are sleep, why not take 30 mins together and play a bord game, or card games? Those are always fun to play and laugh and you will both be happy. Then maybe the next night have cookies and just talk about you guys. A friend of mine was going through this a little so she thought of writing little cute sticky notes where her hubby would go like in the morning her hubby goes to work so she wrote a sticky note saying Good morning love, have a wonderful day. in his lunch bag she would write remember how we had wonderful lunch dates. around the house like ur handsome, then a few days later she would find notes too and they would make date nights at least 2 times a month. why not try something like that? little things count too. just let him know ur thinking about him. hope any of this helps.

shesAWKWARD (806.6 days ago)
Me and My husband find time for JUST me and him. even if its a half hour to talk about US and nothing baby related just talk :) like we have a hot tub so we go out and sit in it and just talk about.. anything. its really nice. and he takes time out of his day to thank me for all i do and and gives me a kiss. We just remind each othter even though an infant DOES TAKE A LOT out of both of you and demands your undivided attention that you dont need to get lost baby world all day. there is nothing wrong for wanting alone time away from your children

AubreyP (806.7 days ago)
The Love Dare By: Stephen Kendrick and watch the movie FIREPROOF!! It`s an awesome movie!!!

RobinG (806.7 days ago)
I had the same concern, we went to counseling and I read books but to be honest the one thing that made the world of difference was to go to a Romance Party (Toy Party) it was incredible and gives you lots of fun ways to make the bedroom fun again :) (its not just toys) I say go to one or have one ~ you will not be disappointed :)



Add comments


Sign up to be able to leave comments!
(Sign up)