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Other-poll poll At what age did you start having sex? Were you with the guy for very long before? Did you tell a parent?
(Other poll by heathert, 796 days ago)
14-15
15-16
16-17
older or younger? Please comment


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Comments: 26

happymommee2kj (795.5 days ago)
I was 19 almost 20 and was with the guy guy for about a month. I knew him for longer though. He broke up w/me about 3 months later. I was young and dumb I suppose :(

RobinG (795.6 days ago)
I am shocked at the number who had sex younger then 14, I think that is far to young ~ but thats just my opinion ~

EandTsmum (795.6 days ago)
I was 16 and there was absolutely no way I`d ever tell my mother. She wouldn`t have a problem with it but I never talk about that sort of stuff with her. We`re still together, and married, almost 13 years later and have 17 month old identical twin boys.

ladykilla421 (795.9 days ago)
I was 18, we werent dating, he was my drinking buddy. After a night of partying we went back to his place to have more drinks and watch the tube. We ended up having drunken sex on his parents couch.... what a way to lose your virginity!!! Oh well, I have no regrets...were still friends today! And no I didint tell my mom.

gavinsmum (796 days ago)
i was 20. And it was to the man i am enaged to be married too. The only man i have ever been with

yorkc39 (796 days ago)
I was 19, my bf and I had been dating 2 years, got married 2 1/2 years later

armymom (796.1 days ago)
I was 15 and barely knew the guy unfortunately. Didn`t really talk much afterwards either. I was 15 and he was 19 and we were drinking at his house with a couple other friends. Yes I told my mom about a year later in the midst of an argument. I yelled, Well don`t worry about me cause I`m not a freakin virgin anymore anyways... very immature, very big mistake, and if I could go back I would do things differently now that I know better.

SunshineBaby1 (796.1 days ago)
I`m the other `odd ball` of the group. I was 22 and it was our wedding night. We had been together 4 1/2 yrs before we got married and, well, you already know... married 4 yrs and currently cooking baby #2! :-)

marli (796.1 days ago)
I was 19 and it was with my boyfriend who is now my husband =) We were together for about 4 months. We`ve been together for 4 years, married for 2 1/2 and are pregnnat with our third child.

adriana03 (796.2 days ago)
i was around 12 i think. I had known him for about a week yeah Ik retarded of me. I was with him for about a year after that. Until i found out he was married uhhu.been with hubby since and its going on 7 yrs.

t555rm (796.2 days ago)
I was 24(!) with my husband on our honeymoon! Yeah not typical right? Well into my 20s and not even on my wedding night. It was all by choice tho`. Did I feel like the odd one out? Sometimes yes. But I was always atypical.

Rubes (796.2 days ago)
I voted 16-17, although it was more 17-18. We`d been together a few weeks, and I`m still with him now (3-years, December 20th). Expecting our first child together, and are engaged, although I prefer the term `partner` to `fiance`!! :-D I told my best friend, and no-one else, although my parents sort of know we're having sex NOW, obviously...

SarahLJ (796.2 days ago)
I was 18 and was with him for a total of 4 months. Was pressured into it we`d only being going out for a week:-(

heathert (796.2 days ago)
Thanks for commenting. I have a 17 y/o daughter.

jeff (796.2 days ago)
20 with my hubbie :)

christinarose (796.2 days ago)
I was almost 17 with my bf of only a few months. I told my mom the very next day.

soon2be3 (796.2 days ago)
I was with my boyfriend for two years (now married to him). I was 17. AND nooooo, I did not tell my parents. It was kind of the `don`t ask, don`t tell` kind of thing. I am sure they assumed we were. I hope my kids are totally open with me about it.

brendalee (796.2 days ago)
The first person I had sex with it was a month after we started dating then 3 months later I broke up with him. I didn`t tell my parents but my sister (who didnt even know I had sex) ran to my mom claiming I was pregnant with his child because she`s a drama queen.

dsday19 (796.3 days ago)
I was nineteen. We dated for months before, and I ended up marrying him. Still together w/ second child on the way.

ArcticArlz (796.3 days ago)
15. I had dated him since I was 12, and continued till I was 17. I figured my parents just knew, but found out once I was in my 20s that they had no idea.

babydecember (796.3 days ago)
We were both 25 and married. Still with him and happy as ever :)

andriette and christians mummy liz (796.3 days ago)
I was 16 with my first boyfriend,i was so in love and so was he,he was 19.We were together for 5 months before it happened and i told my mom who was so very mad at me,i was bleeding so i had to tell her.We broke it off 3 months later coz of some issues involving long distance.

KR (796.3 days ago)
I was 18. We were married, and are currently separated. It was a choice to wait until i was out of high school just *in case* I told my mom about a week after.

nutnut (796.3 days ago)
I was 18 and was engaged to him. I married him as well, but was divorced two years later lol! oh well.

monkeymamma (796.3 days ago)
I was 18, with the guy for a year before we did..but then I broke it off 6 months later.

MaryJanowiecki (796.3 days ago)
My husband and I were both 19 on our wedding night.



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