domsmom2009 (1184.9 days ago) I was like this after my son was born.... my `After` plan did not go my way at all! I wanted my mother here but she was sick so my MIL invited herself over and I don`t agree with her parenting views at all so it was added stress. I had a c-section and had to go home to ALL the chores. it was alot on my body and it was mentaly draining as well. It gets better :)