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MommyOf3But4ToBe (703.8 days ago)
Dont feel bad, i think that you did the right thing, and i also feel that your best freind felt the same way. Most likely she seen what was going on and realized that it was more hassle to invite them, then otherwise. So dont feel bad at all hun... (((HUGS)))

domsmom2009 (703.8 days ago)
Don`t feel bad... they asked for it. You did what you had to do and thats that. you don`t need to feel bad/sorry.

Bek 30 (703.9 days ago)
Sorry this may seem very long and boring....My best friend owns a cabin down the coast, well anyway her and her husband suggested we buy one also, as we are always going down and renting places to stay. So we bought one in a caravan park next door to my best friends caravan park, it was cheap enough and the annual fees are very reasonable. So we all went down on the weekend as we are still fixing ours up. So anyway my friend took her neighbours down who I have never met before, we were all getting along well, until my hubby turns up and says he knows this girl from school. Well this girls attitude changes bad, turns out hubby could bring her right down and ruin her life, not that he would. Anyway, that night we were at my friends cabin having dinner, everyone was their ( other ppl in the park, who I get on with very well), but this one girl, starts in on my son, letting her kids ride my sons scooter and bike without permission, but when my daughter touched her sons toys, she went off at my daughter, I let it slide, then her son starts pushing my daughter ( both 2), and when she tripped back, he and his 5 yr old bro put the boot into her, I said something, she was not happy, then an hour later, my daughetr picked up a ski rope belonging to my friend, and this little boy starts again, so my daughter lays on it, refuses to give in, hubby, myself and g/f are laughing, then the boy grabs the rope, pulls at it, and my daughter tugs it back, he falls flat on his face, starts to cry, and we are trying to stifle our laugh, so the mum and dad (who is a detective who thinks his shit don`t stink) walk in, scoop the son up, and storm off. So this afternoon we get home, I ring my best friend and say Look I am so sorry for taking off early and not coming for a ski, you are my best friend, I love you with all my heart, I am friends with everyone, I am not rude to your friends, but I am sorry, but I cannot stand your neighbours ( many other things happened and were said on the sly to me), I did not want to put my kids in that situation again, they did not have fun...so my friend pipes up and say`s it is ok, nobody their last night like my neighbours, neither do I, but my hubby insists I be nice because he is bestfriends with the hubby neighbour..then she goes on to say she won`t invite them down anymore. Now I feel really really bad, I did not want that to happen, I just wanted to clear everything up as my bestie was upset and hurt that we did not go skiing today and she thought I had a problem with her, she knows me to well and knew I had a problem, no matter how hard I tried to hide it, she just knew...what would you guy`s do now? Her hubby will start a huge argument next time my g/f says she does not want the neighbours to go down...besides it`s not like we have to spend all our time together on holidays..how do I point that out without hurting her?



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