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samanthabishop (698.6 days ago)
my mother and father hated each other but they both love me. i think if they would have stayed together just because they had me i would be screwed up. if a couple stays together only for the kids everyone will be miserable.

charliesmummy18 (698.8 days ago)
No way, babies can pick up on the tension between people. Also babies put a strain on relationships and if theirs already a strain then things will only become worse!! Hope this helps!

shesAWKWARD (698.9 days ago)
no.. i think the kids will since the tension. and babies only want mommy and daddy happy. i say work it out enough where you guys can tolerate each other for the kids sake and move on. cause like it or not you guys will be in each others lives from here on out. but some relationships are just not ment to be reguardless if you have kids together or not

CroninS (698.9 days ago)
My best friend was thinking about splitting up with her hubby, then she got pregnant with my God daughter, Abby, they decided that even though they don`t get along they will try to stay together for her. They fought, they were both miserable but after a very bad fight and a lot of drinking on both parts she ended up pregnant with my Godson. Her hubby said that she trapped in, for another year, she said I hate him but I am not going to be divorced with 2 kids before the baby is a year old, so they stayed together. They are still together, my god son William is now 6 months old and their parents hate each other but neither one will suck it up and file for the divorce. The kids are miserable and when you are around them you can tell that even though Abby is 19 months old she is a very miserable toddler and her brother is a miserable 6month old. Because of this situation and others that I know of similar to this, I personally feel if the parents are not happy together they shouldn`t be, they don`t have to live together to be good parents to the child(ren)....jmo

canadababy (698.9 days ago)
Lol, that was me, I was wondering what happened! But I totally agree with you and you said it better anyway ;)

Str8 As (698.9 days ago)
I wouldn`t say to work it out because of the baby, but I say it depends on the issues the couple is having. Sometimes a relationship is worth working out because the issues are not bad just trivial. IMO

domsmom2009 (698.9 days ago)
It would depends... like mama-dearest said, if therapy might help I`d give it a try. but if everything has been done and the love isn`t there anymore, then no I`d leave.

Stay@homezookeepa (698.9 days ago)
NO WAY~ no one will be happy if that is the only reason! If that were the case I`d be miseable with my DD`s father. But instead made the TOUGH (now looking back easy and best) decision and am happily married and having my third child with my husband and he loves my DD just the same!



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