lilyxox19 (331.8 days ago) Oh but with that said, we are a very goofy joking married couple. I know he has never cheated. I also know where his whereabouts are 24/7 (because he works crazy amount of hours) and he always calls me any free time he gets. He also completely trusts me too because he also knows where I am at all the time (at home looking after our son lol). But if you guys aren`t that kind of a couple, then I wouldn`t think that was a joke. And even with all of our joking. Its NEVER `I cheated`....`Just kidding`.
lilyxox19 (331.8 days ago) DH and I always joke around with stuff like that. But its not like, Oh I cheated....naa just kidding. Its more like he will get a call or text, and I ask who it is and he responds with Oh my other girlfriend but then when I continue to bug him its his mom or friend. Or we could be joking about something and he will say, oh I will just take my other girlfriend then. I joke about it too. In fact the other day I was telling him how I found someone else who I love more than him. He was like Who? Then I say I`m not going to tell you, but he is MUCH MUCH cuter!! And he is old like you! Then James will ask me if I`m talking about our son. Which of course I am lol. Then he just responds with your dumb.
Avas*Momma*09 (331.9 days ago) Back when DH and I were having ALOT of problems (before DD was even here) in the heat of a fight he once told me that he cheated on me. When he would get mad he would say some of the most hurtful things just to get to me. We have worked on alot of issues since then and are honestly the best we have ever been right now and he doesn`t say stuff like that anymore. I know he did not cheat then and has never cheated. He was just the type to say things out of anger that weren`t true just to get to me. It was deff wrong of him to say but I know it wasn`t true. Only you know your SO and if he would joke like that. You probably have a gut instinct on if it was true or not and I think you should go with that. Like one of the other ladies said, Are yall a joking couple like that? Or are yall more serious when it comes to stuff like that? Only you know yalls relationship best.
KR (332.6 days ago) To be honest, I think each of us can only guess. Your the one who was there, heard it, and would have the *Gut* feeling. If you guys are a *joking type of couple* and are not a serious couple then it could be possible it was just another joke of his. I cant help but wonder.. did he say it and then laugh and quickly say it was just a joke? Did he say it and then take it back the NEXT day? Did he say it in a serious manner? Did he give details when he said it? Those are question you should ask yourself, and then most importantly go with that feeling in your tummy! GL
Waiting for Roland (332.6 days ago) I always ask my husband when people ask these types of questions to get the ` male` perspective and he just said it was just so bizarre he would even joke about that. He said he might truly be cheating but got scared of your reaction. He said if he was kidding he is one really weird or totally dumb dude.
hannahe (332.7 days ago) dont know him and dont know the context of this `joke` but if i were a betting woman, i would say he cheated and was trying to clear his conscience without actually suffering the consequences of his actions...
lisseo (332.7 days ago) Who would joke about that? If he was joking, that just shows his immense immaturity. I would assume it was real, and he is now trying to save his butt.
MommyOf3But4ToBe (*PINK*) (332.9 days ago) My first thought was that he was trying to see your reaction to it. Almost ilke if you just kind of laughed it off, that would give him the green light to do it, if he had not done so yet, or let him know how you will react if he actually did in fact cheat on you. I certainly would not stay with him though, like RobinG says, if he could disregard your feelings like that, he is not really worth your time... just my thoughts...
RobinG (333.1 days ago) What would concern me just as much is that fact that he would even think that joking was ok, even if he didnt. To joke that he is IMO is nearly as bad, if not worse since it too has no regard for your feelings and is beyond hurtful to say or do. I personally wouldnt be with someone who could joke like that or cheat and tell you to get over it. He`d be out the door but thats just me. Whether he actually did or not wouldnt matter anymore since the joke is just as bad in regards to his opinion of your feelings, I would still be done with him.