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Other-poll poll awwwwwww:( I was tucking my four year old into bed and told her she was going to see her mimi tomorrow. she said ` Mommy, can you PLEASE not tell her about when I get in trouble? It embarasses me in front of my mimi. ` I do recap some problems sometimes to get advice, but I never thought about her feelings. Do you do that?
(Other poll by Waiting for Roland, 310 days ago)
no- I knew ahead of time or from experience not to do that.
yes, but mine do not care
yes, but I don't care because my kid should be embarrassed from the times they get in trouble


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angie2008 (309.1 days ago)
I never really thought about it before but I definitely do it. My daughter usually includes herself in the conversation and recaps it herself. YOu can tell her that you like to talk with mom mom because you want advice on how to be a better mommy, or talk to your mom in private when your daughter is in bed or something. Good luck :)

AngieP (309.3 days ago)
I have been trying to work on that, because I can tell my kids don`t like it and I didn`t like it when my parents did it. Kinda hard though, because to us it`s just getting advice or sharing a story.



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