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Added: 110 days ago.
Added by: Chardae
Section: Pregnancy.
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Well i have missed my period and i have had unprotected sex and the boy has cum in me but y did i not get pregnant. My boyfriend and I are trying to have e baby but for some reason its not working so can anyone tell me y its not? working thank you!!!

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jah-baby - 101 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) for one..just enjoy the sex and dont do it for the baby..u stress your body out by thinking of having a baby..also ur body is going to react so much differently because u are so young..i think u should consider waiting atleast till u finish high school..a baby is very hard work

mommy-of-3 - 102 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Not to sound like everyone on here but I have to agree with all of them, there is no way you can take full responsibility for a child at 15 years old. You aren't even old enough to drive, you can't get a decent job yet, you can't even live on your own, you haven't even experienced life yet. A baby is going to need you 24/7, that means no more hanging out with friends anytime you want, that means endless nights of very little to nearly no sleep at all, and what about school? Would you drop out? Please think about what you are trying to do. A baby needs to be born into a secure and stable environment to a parent who is capable of caring for them financially as well as emotionally. At 15 you have so much more growing up to do, even though I know you don't realize it now.

mattie4 - 104 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) you have to be ovulating. btw, there is some great advice given here. You are really young, and maybe the novelty of a baby seems nice, but not all pregnancies end with a healthy baby. Consider that. It is hard enough having a healthy baby, but what would you do if the baby had special needs? I ask this as a mother of a special needs child. I couldnt imagine being mature enough at 15 and dealing with the many things that i have had to deal with for my son. I also know that i couldnt have afforded the much needed therapy that my son gets and that is crucial to his recovery. Think about that please. Children are a 24 hour 7days a week, 365 days a year job. they are completely dependent on you. Anyhow...i probably gave you more than you were asking for, but oh well. Good luck sweetie and really think long and hard about what you are trying to achieve.

Carmione - 104 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I wont get on a soap box, because I myself started experimenting with sex when I was a year younger than you. I wish I hadn't however-darling please deeply consider what you are striving to accomplish here. The signs in place are telling you something, please listen to them as they serve as good warning. God is never going to put more on you than you can bare-right now I believe that is exactly what is happening with you. He's not going to allow you to become pregnant until he's ready for you to be. Relax and enjoy your youth sweetheart, you'll never get these years back, despite efforts to recapture them. May God bless your young heart and calm your spirit so you can be guided in the direction he's laid out for you. xoxo

LMO - 104 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) you are soo young are you sure that you want the responsibility of having a child. it could take you a long time to get pregnant or you can get pregnant right away it all depends on your cycle.

MelissaJoanne - 105 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Without the lecture about you being too young... you must be ovulating at the time of intercourse. Even if your are ovulating, there is possibly a 20% chance of getting pregnant. Some women get pregnant the first time they try, for others it takes years. Some have to use IVF to get pregnant, for some that isn't enough either.

2nd1ontheway - 105 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Maybe God is trying to tell you something, besides that you can't just have sex and get pregnant you have to be ovulating.

ttasha - 105 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i know every1 has been saying this but you are young and youve got your whole life ahead of you. trust me ive got to put my whole life on hold because of my son and i still need to finish my education I would agree with the rest of the ladies its all to do with ovulating, ive had unprotected sex with my man a number of times and i didnt get pregnant until last yr

tamaraleigh - 105 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) You are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too young! God works in mysterious ways. But I would say you are not ovulating then.

ANABANANA - 108 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) im hving the same issue.. im still trying to help myself.. lol.. gd luck.. keep trying:)

Christina1984 - 108 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) medically speaking it would be because of ovulation. but i think maybe its not meant to be right now because u r so young. please wait.ur body is still developing how can u expect to develope a baby. and r u financially stable to care for a child? are u ready to give all ur time to a baby? that means no fun with friends whenever u want. have fun now and then have a baby when u are ready. i was young with my daughter, i had her at 21. and even at 21 i lost all my friends cuz they did not want to hang out with a baby at that point in time. i was not financially secure either. now i am 24 and having my 2nd child. and that is because i am ready. a baby is not fun and games that u can dress up and play with. a baby cant do anything and needs everything from u. can u handle staying up all night and a sick baby or a baby that crys all the time. u cant just put it away until u are ready to play again. im not trying to be mean, but i want u to consider the life that u would be bringing into the world. be fair. please just wait there is plenty of time to have a family.

madisons-mom - 108 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) you need to be ovulating, and no offense, i know having a baby sounds good right now, but you are too selfish at 15 to devote EVERYTHING to someone else right now, probably not what you want to hear but i am 23 right now and prego with my second kid and sometimes i think i was too young, that i would be more patient if i were older and being 15 is umm just crazy to be a baby on purpose, not only that but your developing body will be destroyed, your bones still need to develop.....

gwen85 - 108 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) you really dont want 2 ruin ur life by tryin 2 get pregnant, its hard work havin a child. you are only young, u need 2 av a life first, you should wait abit finish your education first.

captlinda - 108 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) You're not ovulating, you can only get pregnant certain times of the month

ajohnson1980 - 109 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) hello! you are 15! you really need to understand that the government isn't always going to pay for irresponsible children having kids. i think it is horrible that you even posted that comment!

ajohnson1980 - 109 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) you can't get pregnant unless you are ovulating!

laceyj - 109 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) id say you should wait a while raely,im 18 and have really struggled with the fact im pregnant for ages,and the chances are its very rare that the babys father will stick around in the future so give it a bit of thought first xx n gd luck with wat ever u decide x

heidi-m - 109 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I don't want to hurt you're feelings but you are still just a child you're self you have so much more to go through.I'm not sure why you want a baby now? If you have a baby now think really hard about it no more fun and games. Its not about you any more. I really hope you take a little time and think this over.You're still really young .

mcrlover - 110 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Well it took me around 2 years to get preg. But then I finally did. I'm 18 and I've been having problems with the pregnancy. So maybe you could wait a little longer. But its your decion.

NorthDay - 110 days ago Rating: 5 (3 votes) Please reconsider what you are trying to do. I got pregnant when I was 15 and it was unbelievably hard. I had great support from my parents but it was still emotionally harder than I ever could have imagined. Most teen parents do not finish school or go on to successful careers. At 15, you need to be focusing on developing your future by finishing school, going to college, creating a future for your future children. I understand that you may feel you are ready, however, think of your child. My biggest regret is that my son had to struggle along side me while I struggled through school and college and jobs that were going nowhere. It is not fair to put a child through that. You only get one chance to be a highschool student and college student. Don't take that away from yourself. Focus on yourself now so you can focus on your children later.

OurBabyBean0508 - 110 days ago Rating: 4.3 (3 votes) At 15 years old you may want to reconsider trying to conceive. Very few girls your age are able to raise their children properly without a lot of assistance from their family members. Plus, there's one more thing to consider. At 15, you are NOT recognized as an adult, and therefore have VERY limited rights. If someone should choose to file for emergency custody and take your baby from you it would be virtually impossible for you to contest it. My sister had her 1st baby at 15 and that's what happened to her. She never got him back and now he calls his grandma "mommy". Think hard about what you're about to undertake. Having a baby is hard enough, losing one could completely ruin your life.

pregnantwithmythird08 - 110 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) All of these ladies are right! Babies are a gift from God and he will bless you when He feels the time is right in your life. Obviously if you have already had a miscarriage then that was Gods way of saying your not ready! Finish school and have fun! When you have a baby, your priorities change BIG time! No more football games on Friday nights, no more clubs (when your old enough to get in), and forget date night! Trust me, you think your family is gonna be there to help you, and they might be, but my family pretty much said nope your a grown woman now, funtime is OVER! SO...just wait and have fun, USE protection!!, find you a well educated man who treats you like a princess. Those are the ones who will stay and be a "Father". Good Luck

HollieNJax - 110 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) Conception is a very delicate process. If you go all into it, it's a wonder that we are able to get pregnant at all. It has to be at the perfect time. A lot of women track there cycles for the most fertile days and really try on those days and it still doesn't work. Chances are that you and your boyfriend are perfectly capable of conceiving but the timing was just off. Sometimes you don't ovulate or you may be off a few days. If you have a regular 28 day cycle then you should ovulate (given that there are no health problems) 10-14 days after the FIRST day of your period. This is the most fertile period and you can only get pregnant around this time. Hope this helps and good luck!!! Wow! I missed the age part. If you are really only 15 then the best thing to do would be wait. You have so much ahead of you and you have many years that you can get pregnant. Chances are this boyfriend is just a teenage thing and not who you will be with forever and you can't have a steady, secure way to take care of a child at 15 and it is so much more to it then just 'having a baby'. I have known many women (who are 21+) that just had to have a baby. They tried and tried and tried and finally they did and it was not at all what they thought. Then it's too late. So much goes into being a parent. you are responsible for another life. Plus not to mention the fact that unprotected sex at any age especially a young age when your partner is more likely not to be faithful is a silly thing. A lot worse things can happen besides pregnancy. Give it some real thought first.

pregnantegyptian - 110 days ago Rating: 5 (2 votes) You're only 15 sweetie you can't even take care of yourself. You just don't understand what it takes to be a mother and what kind of sacrifices you are gonna have to make. You can't even get a stable job. You must be going to a school where there are a lot of pregnant teens and you must think it's cute. Yes pregnancy is beautiful but what about when the baby comes. It's more than just dressing the baby up in cute clothes and shoes. You have to provide for the baby and your baby will always come before you. McDonalds is not gonna cover up the income of taking care of a baby. You aren't even old enough to work there....So please just finish school go to college then think about babies...You are only a baby yourself. GOD BLESS!!!!!!

wannabmommy - 110 days ago Rating: 1 (1 votes) well it takes more than one shot sweety, finish school, it took me and my husband 5 months which is considered normal.....so dont stress about it.

jen - 110 days ago Rating: 2.7 (3 votes) Before you decide to become pregnant, you should know more about pregnancy. There are only a couple of days per month when a woman has a high probability of concieving. And being young, you have a higher chance of having a miscarriage. Please think of everything before you bring another life into this crazy world. I just had my first at 27, and I don't think I would have been ready any sooner to be a mom!

christen - 110 days ago Rating: 4.2 (5 votes) WELL FIRST OF ALL YOUR TOO YOUNG TO EVEN START THINKING ABOUT BABIES YOU GOT A WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU....IT WAS HARD ENOUGHT ON ME WHEN I WAS 18....FINISH UP SCHOOL AND THEN WORRY ABOUT THAT