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etopic
Added: 70 days ago.
Added by: drgoresgirl
Section: Pregnancy.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


hello i do not know if i am pregnant yet but i am scared to take a test cause my hubby and i have been tryin to have a baby and no luck but i am havin some pain in my lower adominal area for 3 days now it last almost all days there is a few mins out of the day i dont have any pains but they hurt they are around my side area. i have not had a period for 47 days now and i am not sure if that means i am or could be cause last year at this time of the year i went 57 days without one but did not have pain like this please anyone that can help could i be pregnant please please please help me i want this to be so bad and it would kill me if i lost this baby thanks and congrats to all new moms and good luck to all moms that are trying.

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mrscolegrove - 64 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) take the test if ur not ur getting ur hopes up to high

drgoresgirl - 65 days ago hello to all of the ladies that answered my question i updates my blog yesterday and today so u can check it out if u would like lol sticky baby dust to ev1

MelissaJoanne - 68 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) There is a very small occurance of ectopic pregnancies. Take the test!

lady26 - 68 days ago Rating: 3 (2 votes) Take the test.

niki - 68 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) If you think for a minute you have an etopic pregnancy go to the hospital - apparently with this type of pregnancy your in some amount of pain - unbearable. I would take a pregnancy test just to see what the outcome is before worrying too much. Google it to see if your experiencing symptoms just to be on the safe side - only you know what pain your in and try to relax - it took me a year to conceive after i miscarried, i think if you put alot of pressure on yourself and think about trying for a baby too much it does postpone your monthly cycles - please try not to stress your not alone and im sure there are many people out there with similar experiences. Take care x

drgoresgirl - 68 days ago ok i just wanted to leave a little update on here for the ladies who have replied to this question. I looked at my charts this morning and i am on cd 50 and if u go by how late i am i am 22 days late i estimated when my due date would be if i was pregnant and its dec 13 2008 which is very cool i have to god daughters and the oldest of the 2 her bday is dec 13 and the youngest b-day is dec 17 so i thought that was cool lets just hope that i am lol i am still haveing the cramps but they are not as bad today as they have been if it keeps up though i am goin to the hospital tomorrow to have them checked out i can not make an appointment cause i dont have insurance so gotta go to the hosptial to be checked i am scared what the results may be but we can keep our fingers crossed i really feel that i am but i am tryin not to get my hopes up to much my hbby is gettin very excited but i just wanted to let u ladies now whats goin on i will try to post on here everyday with an update i might start writing them in a blog on my page well tc ev1 and sending lots and lots and lots and lots of baby dust to all of us ttc and congrats to those that are already prego.

Mommyof2boys - 69 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) I would make a doctors apt. to do a pregnancy test and let them do an ultrasound. Pain & cramping can be normal during the first trimester lots of women have it and have a normal pregnancy. To reassure your self make the the call and try to think positive. Good luck!

Rebekahs-mama - 69 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) I understand your hesitancy to take another test. I swear I'd be a millionaire if I saved my money and never bought tests! But if you are pregnant than you need to know...sooner rather than later. It might be good to call your doc and see if you can get in for an appointment. Then they can run the test themselves and if you're not pregnant then your doc can find out what's going on with your body. If you do turn out to be pregnant then you can have your first visit! Good luck to you! I'm sending baby dust your way! btw - I had really bad cramping in early pregnancy and it was almost always on one side or the other...everything turned out fine!

drgoresgirl - 69 days ago again thank you all for answering my question. you were all very helpful. i will be going to the doc on friday unless the pains get worse but lets keep those fingers crossed and keep the baby dust coming lol

athome - 69 days ago Rating: 4 (1 votes) The pain could be caused my ligaments stretching, implantation, hormones or it could be ectopic. You need to do a test and see your doctor immediately. I know its hard I have been through MC and I know how scary it is when you really want a bub but IF it is ectopic and you dont do anything about it you could end up loosing your tube or worse, then you will really have trouble conceiving. I dont want to scare you but you need to tackle this one head on, its just not worth playing with. You will feel better when you know, it could be the good news you have been waiting for, dont leave it any longer to find out. Good Luck I have my fingers crossed for you.

skittles0607 - 69 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) Good Luck! I hope you get your healthy bundle of joy!! Let us know what happens...

RandiLee - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) Good Luck !!* :) Keep us updated.

Baby3OnWay - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) check with your DR. GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE YOUR FNALLY PG!!

drgoresgirl - 70 days ago thank you all for answering my question. i will be goin to visit a doc as soon as i get paid unless it gets worst that goes the same for a pg test i can not get one with out money and can not go to planned parenthood where i live cause it does cost but the pain i am havig is in my lower adominal area arounds my sides but around the pelvis area as well if i stand to long it feels like my stomach is gettin tight so i try to stay off my feet but i have ben so tired cause i can not get enough sleep cause of some of the pains and when i have to go to the bathroom if i don't go right away the pains will start to get sharper and then i can not hold itany longer so i go as soon as i notice lol but anyway thanks for answering my question and i will let everyone know something as soon as i know anything

gr8scottswife - 70 days ago Rating: 3 (1 votes) You may be pregnant. The pain may or may not be an ectopic pregnancy. A cyst will develop to support the baby until the placenta takes over. That's common. However, until you get an ultrasound, you won't know if it's the cyst or an ectopic pregnancy.

uhmanduh - 70 days ago Rating: 3 (1 votes) i heard that a little cramp here and there is fine. i think thats when the egg attaches itself to your uterus but continuous pain i would ask ur doctor

Christina1984 - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) if it makes u feel better, pain in the sides was the 1st sure sign i was pregnant. the pain is usually just stretching. if it were accompanied by severe pain in the shoulder then they say that is a sign of etopic

nich-vegas-mommy2be - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) I hope it works out for you! I had pain on one side, and heard all of the horror of ectopic, but turns out it was just the side I ovulated from. Take the hpt or go to the doctor! You could be pregnant! Try to relax and not stress, just take a test and see what your results are :) Let us know!

lmo - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) take the test or go to the doctor, i would think you would be pregnant if you have gone that long with out a period good luck baby dust

Melanie07 - 70 days ago Rating: 3 (1 votes) Take a test. Also, call the doc. You could be preggers. If not, you need to see a doc just to find out what is causing the pain. you don't want to play around with having constant pain. It could be something serious. You should see a doc. That many days without a period, something is up. Preggers or not.

joyfulnoise - 70 days ago Rating: 1 (1 votes) Take a pg test, and call your Doctor. Good luck

LilMrsK - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) Cramping could just be a sign of your uterus growing. I would take a test and make an appt with an OB to make sure all is well. Best luck.

mommy-of-3 - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) Cramping is normal in early pregnancy but cramping that is all on one side can be cause for concern. The best thing you can do for your own safety and well being is to take the test to find out if you're pregnant then get in and see a doctor to let them know of the pain you've been having.

jodiie - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) i had this.. mine was a unberable pain i got rushed into hospital and that is when i found out i was pregnant mine was down to a sist (sp) on my ovary the pain was very sharp and it only got worse for me to the point i was in agony and couldnt move..at the hospital they was concerned it was etopic or my apendix but furter test shown it was the sist (sp) dont hold off on it because if it is what i had it gets VERY painfull my advice would be to go to the doctors now.. and go by what they say to you but if the pain gets worse dont book another doctors appointment go straight to the hospital

jaskay - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) Hi Do a test for your own sake. There are alot of pains pregnant women feel, I only found out I was preggies @ 12 wks for the same reason. I denied everything my body was telling me but at the same time praying that the pain did not mean there was anything wrong with da "baby", see deep inside I already knew. Everything will be fine.

UKMama - 70 days ago Rating: 5 (1 votes) As the pain has gone on for some time and there is no bleeding it is unlikely to be an ectopic pregnancy as the problems and pain associated with these pregnancies work very quickly. If you start to feel light-headed &/or clammy or pale and if your heartrate suddenly races and any pain becomes unbearable (really, you can't function or move) you MUST call for help IMMEDIATELY [another thing to look out for is pain in your shoulder joint, regardless of pain elsewhere. Ectopic pregnancies can sometimes have 'silent' symptoms]. But, from what you say, having long unpredictable periods and ovarian sited pain you may have poly cystic ovaries. Go to you doctor and discuss things with her. Take a pregnancy test of course, first, for your own immediate curiosity. I do feel for you! I was once told I'd not have children without help (IVF) but suddenly BANG! I was pregnant?? Don't feel hopeless. Try and feel in expectation!

riknlee - 70 days ago Rating: 1 (1 votes) Why dont you go to the doctor? pain in your side is nothing to muck around with. Why dont you take a pregnancy test. I think if it was ectopic, the pain is excrutiating. But hey I am no doctor, please go to the doctor