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dont know what to do
Added: 194 days ago.
Added by: mrscolegrove
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


ok if any of you have read my page and my blogs you know i have 2 children already that there dad kidnapped over a year ago well 2 days ago i called my birth mother cuz of a very strange email and my ex was there. he told me that since im having another baby i must be able to afford one so hes taking me to court on children i have full custody of and he kidnapped. he was never that smart so all i told him was go ahead ill be there well if he actually does it then ill get my kids back. ok now theres all kinds of mixed feelings here im excited to see my kids and will be happy to get them back but i dont work and currently live with my mother in law so money and room is an isue and will they even know who i am whats best for them god im more scared about children i already have then the one im carring. has anyone been here? any ideas on what to do?

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skittles0607 - 193 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I would go ahead and get those kids back. When they get older you won't be able to forgive yourself for not being with them when they were young. Take him to court for support and get a job. Maybe you can get help through the state. Here in NY they help us with everything if we need it. Money for food, rent, health insurance.. Good luck to you and your family..

Baby3OnWay - 193 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I say you will find the strength somehow to do what needs to be done for those children. First he should be paying you support, and that will help you out a bit, theres other supports out there that can help you with the children as well, get you on your feet, in your own place. I found that my children made me stronger and mmore willing to fight the world and give them and me and my entire family what they need to be happy! Take care of yourself and I wish you all the best. You can do it hun, scary or not, remember you or not those children need you!

Brandi J. - 193 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Show the courts that you intend to do everything that you possibly can to give your children a stable home and financial stability. Get a job, it would be awesome if your mother in law would be able to be the children's sitter during the day when you are at work, if not find a daycare or trusted sitter for the children. Get an apartment in a safe part of town, better yet find a home to rent that is in a safe neighborhood, it doesn't have to be in the best part of town, just safe. Show them that you are serious about getting your children back and giving them the best life you possibly can. I hope that you reported the children missing after the kidnapping, b/c your ex is most likely going to make you sound horrible, be prepared to show the court differently. Keep your cool, don't lose your temper, b/c this will only make it worse, show them that you are the more stable one. Good luck hun!! How awful that you are going through such a painful battle, but how awesome that you are so close to possibly getting your children back forever, and hopefully justice being served to your ex.

jodiie - 193 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) did you report him when he kidnapped them ? because if you did then theres a very small chance that he'd get access because thats like being an unstabled farther and about the room at your mother inlaws get your kids first!! worry about that later ano it wouldnt be able to be a perminant thing but once you get your kids taken from you its harder to get them back because you have to prove yourself and all that i really hope yo reported him because if you used that in court i dont think he'd have a leg to stand on x all the best

christina1984 - 194 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) my daughters dead beat dad is always threatening to kidnap her. he has her today but i know that he wont cuz he cant handle kids for more then a short period of time. his two others he hasnt seen in 4 yrs. i think u should have the police after him. if he was a jerk enough to kidnap them then he must not care all that much about the feelings of the children. no one should rip children away from their mom, that would hurt them. u need to get them back and im sure they will know u and love u. they may have some issues cuz of what they have been thru and who knows what info was shoved into their brain but after time with u they will be fine. as for space i dont really know but as long as u have ur kids thats what matters