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is it wrong
Added: 147 days ago.
Added by: nutmeg
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


im starting to feel its wrong to be pregnant. Im 17, not trying for a baby, not even sure i want one, not ready for one, eat fatty crappy fast food everyday, dont take care of myself and the one time the condom fails and im up the duff. I look around and see so many women trying desperatly for months. Trying so hard and i just think its unfair.

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XIDJA - 146 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) try to remember that no matter what God gave you this precious gift for a reason. even if you decide you want to give the baby up he/she was still created for a very special purpose. i think no matter what age you are its very normal to be wondering if you should be having a baby-especially if its unplanned. honestly i dont think anyone is ever truly ready for the changes a baby brings into their life! dont get me wrong i understand you are young and confused right now, i just really believe that if God didnt think you could handle it he wouldn't have given you the baby-He never gives us more than we can handle. try to reach out for support and try to make healthier choices. i know that its hard i struggle with it too! best of luck and i too am available if you want to talk ;-)

Baby3OnWay - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I have to give you credit at your age doing what you are doing.. your life choices will change once that baby gets here... even your diet. I too was a fast food junkie but once my children started eating solids i found myself eatting the same foods and with them at the table. If you don't feel ready to have a baby but know you can't just let go why don't you look into an open adoption... your choice but heads high girl

JennSever - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) well then darlen - why don't you give open adoption some serious consideration? you could give a loving couple the biggest gift of their life. at least your mature enough to know that perhaps having this baby is not the best for you, but it could be the best for someone else. good luck honey

nainakika - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) having the joy of being pg and giving the baby a chance to live is the greatest blessing, even you you do decide to give the baby up for adoption. If you do give it up think of how happy you will be making a couple who has been waiting for a baby!!! or if you decide to keep the baby well later on once the baby is born and you hold it in your arms you will know that to that baby you are the greatest person in his/her life and in their eyes you will always be the best mom ever and knowing you have that chance is so beautiful. It is not unfair at all because either way you go you will be making some one very happy whether it being yourself or the people who will have the chance to adopt the baby they have been praying for...i wish you the best and i will pray for your and the baby's happiness in what ever you do decide to do.....if you ever need to talk go to my site....good luck!!!!!!!!!!

amber0225 - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) hello. my younger sister is 17 fixing to have her second child. There are lots of girls that have babies before they are 16 my sister was pregnant at 15 years old and honestly dont let what ppl think bother you. If you keep a baby when you are young it makes you a stronger person than if you give the baby up.

mrscolegrove - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i was 13 with my first i never regreted keeping him and everyday i fight to find him and my other child i had at 19 were kiddnapped by there father i was presured into putting him up for adoption but i didnt and i would of made a big mistake if i did its all up to you

*catherine* - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I am 19 but 18 at the time I got pregnant, I was under a lot of pressure to "consider my options" for me there was no other opotions but to keep him and even though it is hard and I resented being pregnant for a while my son is the best person in my life and is my world...it is going to be hard i wont lie but it is so worth it

lilbittymunchkin - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) my mom was the same as you when she had me. she was brave enough to give me up and it was probably the best thing she could have done for me. the decision is yours.

theTWINSmake5 - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i had my first child at 15 years old, at the time i felt like it was the end of the world. she ended up being the best thing that has happened to me, and my absolute best friend! i am now 29, she is 13 and i have a husband, a career, and two other beautiful children. i would not change a thing. but you need to do whats feels right for you, my decision would not be the right one for everyone. follow your heart... your a mother, you know what's best for your baby; whether its being raised by you, or by someone else, let love guide you.

monica9 - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I guess there its the consequence to having sex. you can always put up for adoption. good luck

drgoresgirl - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) its not wrong to be pregnant like agonzales said everything happens for a reason if u do not want to be a mother yet give the baby up for adoption to a family who does want it and will love it i am not encouraging u to give it up but i want you to know thatit is ok i understand to a point that it is hard for u as u r only 17 and not every pregnant woman eats healthy but still has healthy babies. right now ur hormones could also be talking for u just think about what u want to do wit ur life ur furture and make sure that you do or dont want the baby first before u do anything please feel free to add me and message me anytime if u would like to chat i am actually on here in and out a lot well take care hun i wish u the best and ur in my prayers

agonzales - 147 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Well I believe things happen for a reason. Even though you are only 17 I dont think its wrong.