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UPDATE re: b/fs naked pics
Added: 78 days ago.
Added by: Holly28
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


Hi Everyone! First of all, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT! Its hard to tell these days if its me or hormones so it was good to know that YES I am totally justified in being upset. I just wanted to update you on what`s been going on...NO I haven`t gotten up the nerve to bring it up to him yet but I did actually go through each of the files I found yesterday (curiousity got the best of me) and found that actually there were WAAAAAY less naked pics than I thought. Most of them were just regular clothed pics of his ex. It just so happened that the ones I clicked when I found them happened to be the naked ones. Still files filled with 100 or so pics of his ex (clothed or not) is a bit much. I really didn`t need to see his internet flings strip tease or pictures of his ex`s snatch and he doesn`t need them. So, I am going to tell him just how much they upset me, ask him to get rid of the naked ones and most of the clothed ones. Its fair that he has a few pics for memories sake. I do. So, that is what is going to happen...once I gather up the couratge to bring it up. It never seems to be the right time. Again, THANK YOU for all your support. I don`t know what I would do without the care and support of all of us on here.

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moms the word - 78 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I am sure if you explain to him why and how much it upsets you he will understand and remove them. Here is what I did, My husband and I both had an "ex box" in the closet. We made the decision to give it 6 months, and keep track of how many times we actually looked at what was in the box. Neither of us ever looked and them for the whole 6 months! So the deal was that if we didn't look at them more than 3 times in the 6 months, we didn't really need them after all and we would throw them away and we did! That was shortly after the birth of our first child almost 11 years ago. They are probably old files that he doesn't even look at anymore. Some people keep that kind of stuff out of habit more than anything. Just talk to him about it and try not to get too emotional about it (as if that is easy for a pregnant woman? I know) but just try to be rational and I am sure you two can work it out. Good Luck!

corrynn - 78 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i'd be pissed. i'm in the same situation. i have dirty stuff of an ex of mine on one of my computers he uses and i'm sure hes seen it and hasn't said anything. but he has a homemade digi cam vid of a sex act and nudes of her on his pc and it does bother me. i know he knows i know about them too. someday soon i'll ask him to remove them. i don't know why i don't ask now. maybe i will when he gets home........

rvblessed - 78 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Holly, My ex had pictures of other girs on his myspace page. i asked for the password and changed it myself. It was me or the pics. LOL, he finally got it! good luck girl