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Sex
Added: 81 days ago.
Added by: AshleyG88
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


Hi i am a new member. I am will be 12 weeks tomorrow, I have a crazy question that i don`t want to ask my doctor. I was wondering if it is bad when me and my husband have sex if i am on top and i go really fast? I have never had a problem except yesterday me whole stomach cramped up but then i stopped and as soon as i did the cramps went away

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jcjd04 - 80 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) just read your question,it is normal to cramp even if he takes top,i am 30 weeks and i still take top,it is easier and he don't put pressure on my tummy that way.my suggestion to you is if it hurt that bad...just slow down a little!

Bienks - 80 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Also happened to me, so I'm just not on top anymore and when your bump gets bigger moving fast gets really hard to do well everything gets hard to do, so hubby does most of the movements now...hehehe

moms the word - 80 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Cramping is normal and so is a little light bleeding afterwards. Both of those things worried me so much that I stopped going on top cause I was constantly worried about hurting the baby so I was getting no pleasure out of it anymore. The cramping is normal and won't hurt the baby but I just couldn't do it cause I am a real worry wart.

mzrican - 81 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) The same thing happened to me. But if the cramps get really bad and unbearable. See your doctor about it

katiemul - 81 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) That happens to me too. It's just because your uterus contracts when you orgasm, but it doest hurt the baby. In fact, babys are usually asleep when we have have sex because the rocking motion calms them. Have your man give you a back rub when your stomach cramps up after sex, it helps me.

amber325 - 81 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) YEAH my dr said "every time you orgasm you give your baby a hug..." Kind of a good thought, also creepy in my opinion! lol But enjoy sex on top while you still can, I cant lol my belly now gets in the way :( lol

sibandtwins - 81 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) sex is fine, but dont over do it lol, esp in the early stages. cramps in your tummy are normal during sex esp after you have had an orgasm (my belly goes really hard). sex is actualy good for your baby as it sends out "feel good" hormones. sex brings on labour in late pregnancy. hope this helps x x x