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ever get really depressed?
Added: 76 days ago.
Added by: mrs mommy
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


Until last night, I always try to stay positive or happy. I`m 8 months preg, super huge, more stretch marks but I never really cared, I just kinda told myself, `I`m young, I`ll lose the weight.` We went to my friends house last night (her KNOWING I`d bring my husband) was wearing incredibly short shorts and a shirt to make her boobs show, she kept like bending down infront of him to where her cleavage would be in his face or her ass was hanging out. I was hoping she didn`t realize what she was doing but, honestly, how could you not? When I`m around any man I try to make sure nothing is popping out or no cleavage is trying to say `hello`. Ever since that, I just have been feeling sad, fat, and discusting so bad, I don`t even want to talk to my husband. I decided if I ever go over to visit with her again, my husband will not be invitted. Do any of you feel like this? How do you feel better? Get a make over? Shopping? Sleep? Thanks in advanced

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teenztina - 71 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I can understand how you feel.I've been in the same boat.What im gonna do is ..work my ass off to get my shape back ..back to my size 10 after my delivery...my motto. Moreover ,I've just visited your profile...im not joking but you are incredibly beautiful lady.I would say,your friend was soooo jealous of you being good looking at this time period.Enjoy and tell her to get lost.

dawnispregz - 75 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I know exactly how you feel, im huge at 6 months and more stretch marks than i can count but my bloke still finds me incrediably sexy-think he needs glasses or something! But when he goes out with the guys i do very insecure, i could go for a bit if wanted but im conscious of bump being knocked,when i do venture out for an hour hes very protective of me and still shows me oodles of affection as normal-even though i feel like a rhino!but when i dont go i get messages saying he loves me etc,so i know its all in my head! but with regards to your friend she needs to realise that what she has done is bang outta order and think what it would have felt like if roles were reversed - but the only thing that she has done is made herself look incredibly cheap, and the greatest thing is your bloke noticed her and still wanted you more than ever! Youve got a good guy, so chin up, ignore the 'friend', and be happy.x x

mrs mommy - 75 days ago Thank you very much for all your kind advice. It means a lot to me that you all took the time to respond. You all made me feel a lot better. I took your advice and told my husband how I felt and he said he thinks she's really gross and that I was 'hotter' than her. Either way if he was telling the truth or not, that's all I needed to hear.. Thank you again ladies! Xoxo

TeeanBaby1 - 75 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) You should've kicked her in her cootchie. Lol! Sike. But no don't let her get you down. You are a beautiful pregnant woman. Carrying a baby is beautiful. Don't punish your husband though. Tell him why you're upset and how she made you feel. Might get a new dress or something out of it

agonzales - 75 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) OH I know how you feel. I was like that towards the end of my last pregnancy. Before then I had no problem with other beautiful women being in front of my man but for some reason I started being insecure about myself and feeling really fat and like he wasnt attracted to me. I get like that sometimes in this pregnancy but now I just brush it off and dont stress over it. I tell myself when I have this baby I will get back down to my size or even smaller just to get through it lol. Im sure alot of the women feel that way so you're not alone. I do think that was disrespectful for your friend to do that though. How do you not know your ass is hanging out. I have a family member like that and its annoying and you can tell she would do things on purpose. I say if you go to your friends house again, try going alone.

amybaby20 - 75 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) uhh i know exactly the feeling i hate any women at all being around my fella and i'm only 17 weeks pregnant and not too big but it still makes me feel extremely unpleasant and soooo unattractive....i feel sooooo down!!!!

moms the word - 75 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I know that it is hard to not feel inadequate when another woman flaunts herself like that. The best thing to do is confront her about it. Let her know how her behavior made you feel. If she is your true friend, she will appologize to you. She may not even realize that she upset you. Pregnant women are so sensitive to the smallest things. I find myself making a big deal out of nothing all the time. Talk to your friend and remember that your husband loves you. He is with you isn't he? I bet he didn't even care what she was wearing. It will be ok. Hang in there!

***MDelly*** - 75 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) You are better than me hun, I would have jumped up and punched her in the face. LOL I understand what you feel like though. I have my days like that too. Where ur in the store with the hubby and you see a gorgeous girl and ya know he sees her too..ugh just makes me feel like shit. I get really depressed somedays but I just try to realize that soon I will have a beautiful baby for going through all this and my body will eventually get back n shape.

amber325 - 76 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I would of had to say something to her..thats just uncalled for! The last time my husband checked out a woman " that i saw " was a beautiful blonde woman who was pregnant in a short short dress..I have to admit I was checking her out to she was so pretty.! But at least he finds that pretty and wasnt looking at the size 2 sluts out there..lol. I usually buy a few new bras/thongs and wear them around the house to get hubby's attention. or I will get my hair done etc to feel pretty. Sleeping will only depress me more.

AshleyG88 - 76 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Girly, i would not let her get to you. You need to always tell yourelf that you are fine and sexy. And for your friend just remember payback is a B****. Have a good day!!

Meegan - 76 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) i think we have all felt this way. i agree with Mrs.M.H. that you need to be open about how you're feeling with hubby...he probably has no idea and is most likely concerned that he did something to upset you. Tell him how she made you feel and tell him exactly what you need to make you feel better. Again, agreeing with Mrs.M.H., men don't read minds and they need to be told. ps: when I'm feeling down, i ask jake to take me on date nights. we get dinner and a movie most of the time...sometimes even take out & a rental movie (this is nice becuase then we can cuddle on the couch) Spending time with him calms me of my worries. good luck and keep on keepin on...i checked out your profile and you are beautiful, don't let anyone, even yourself, tell you otherwise!!

Mrs.M.H. - 76 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Let your hubby know exactly how you felt at the time!!! He doesn't read minds and well he can help you feel better by just say something like, he didn't even notice the behavior or that he did really think that it was nice of her to do that, like totally inapproperit. He can always try to make you feel more appealing by saying so, and making comment to you on others that might be flonting. He might just need ideas to help you feel better about yourself. On the other hand he may just have no clue as to her actions having an impact on you. I tell my hubby when I feel unattractive or fat. He always does his best to say something to help me feel good (have told him what to say too, it helps to laugh about it too). Being preggo is a beautiful thing and you just can help how it makes you look and guys for some reason get that with out any thought, so we really just need to start looking at the more up side of things when they make us sad. Like she might look good in that but I can make this mat shirt look good:)She'd never fit it:~ and everyone is going to want to look at your baby after too:) Hey maybe next time you should invite your H, and just make comment to you friend about her trying to make you feel bad, when you know you look better than her. As a joking thing. It is a small way to make her think about things. Oh, and you aren't being crabby then either just cool about it all. I fall ease fails go shopping and sleep can really help a bad mood too. Good luck!

notPMSimjusPREG - 76 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Well it's not your husband's fault that she was doing that so don't punish him by not wanting to talk to him! He still finds you attractive, trust me! Your the mother of his child! I get this way allll the time... and I know how much it sucks.... at least you're 8 months pregnant! SO you're almost done... lol don't worry hun, just keep your head up.