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late miscarriage
Added: 1076 days ago.
Added by: hiswifey06
Section: General.
Status: This question is Closed. (Questions will be closed after 10 days.)


Has anyone else experienced a miscarriage at 11 weeks? I just went to the ER and had one last night... I don`t know what to do.. I feel like its all my fault. What should I do? I can`t stop crying, I had names picked out for a boy or girl..

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ready4princessLaila - 1072 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) yes i had a miscarriage at 12 WKS last april it's truly devastating and puts alot of stuff in your head but its not your fault god had his reason and now just think of your baby as an angel in heaven;) its hard to move on but you'll never truly forget but its nothing you or anyone else did it was just meant to be. god bless and take care!!!

Julianna - 1074 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I had a miscarriage at about 12 weeks with my 3rd pregnancy. YOU are not bo blame! You did nothing wrong. Sometimes the baby gets to a point in development where something just goes wrong and there isn't anything you did or can do to fix that. Misalignment or chromosomal abnormalities are to blame for most (don't know the percentage) of miscarriages. Allow yourslef time to cry. Do whatever you ahve to in order to grieve. Find a pregnancy and infant loss support group or a miscarriage support group that can help you through. I am very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself!!

aussiegirl80 - 1074 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I am so sorry for your loss. It was NOT your fault. I have recently had the same experience :( Please allow yourself to grieve, cry, scream, be peed off at everyone and everything. The girls on the ttc after loss forum are a very good support network, we have been through this awful experience and are here to listen .... Take care....

Tylers Mum - 1075 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) im probably repeating what everyone else has said but in no way is it your fault! Its just natures way of making sure that when you do have a baby it is super healthy and perfect :)

jessicanewmom2be - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Im sorry for ur loss I had 2 misscarrages and one still born so I know how u feel the only thing I can say is done give up sweetie! keep aiming for ur lil one and its not ur fault at all sometimes these things happen next time dont hesatate to ask the dr to put u on high risk

hiswifey06 - 1076 days ago Thanks ladies.. I kinda feel better knowing that its not my fault.. Hugs

::Isaac::Gabby::Amber - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I am sooooo sorry about your lost. My sister in law had one at 20 weeks. I am sooo sorry. I would not stop crying either, I would be so completely depressed like I was when i had my miscarriage before gaby.

Bangel - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I'm so sorry for your loss! It is definitely not your fault at all! I had one too...took lots of tears and time to feel better.

rorylex2008 - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) hi there i too have been through this a few times i have lost 2 pregnancies at 11-12wks and 1 at 14wks so dont think u are alone. plz leave a message in my profile if u would like to talk about it.

jaydsmom - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I am so sorry for your loss. You need to not blame yourself and realize that it was natures way. I also suffered a miscarriage and had to think that when it was meant to be it would happen. There is absolutley nothing you could have done to prevent it, so don't beat yourself up.

ARMYMOM - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I had a miscarriage at 11 weeks too 3 years ago. It was awful and painful. I went to the ER twice and it took about a week to stop bleeding completely.. but emotionally it took much much longer.. It's not your fault. Miscarriages happen often and they happen for a reason... Try not to blame yourself because theres nothing you could have done to prevented it. I'm so sorry for your loss. Msg me if you ever need to talk. Be strong girl~

mommy-at-home - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) I agree with all that has been said already... I experienced a missed miscarriage with my first baby at 13 weeks; baby at died at 11 weeks. I named my baby also...

jessicadarling - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) The first thing and the hardest to realize is that this is not your fault. These things happen for reasons unknown. Some people may tell you that you weren't pregnant enough to be so sad but ignore them. Take as much time as you need. A loss is a loss and anyone that doesn't understand that should keep their mouths closed. I am so sorry for your loss. I will say a prayer for you.

sarahann - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Oh, I am so sorry that you are going through this. Don't blame yourself. I had a missed miscarriage (where the baby died but I didn't know because I didn't miscarry naturally). I ended up having a D&C to remove the baby at about 11 weeks. It is horrible, especially when you have names picked and have dreamed of how things will be. You must take time to grieve your baby. You have every right to cry and be upset, this was your baby. No one quite understands how you feel, because no one else has the attachment that you already have with your baby, so be prepared that people may say things unintentionally which can be hurtful. Take time to look after yourself, and as I said, grieve for your baby and your loss, it is normal. Your doctor should be able to offer you appropriate support if needed. Take care xx

lv2bamommy - 1076 days ago Rating: 0 (0 votes) Hey hun! First, I am so very sorry for your loss! Most likely nothing you did could have caused this, or even prevented it. Please don't feel it's your fault. People grieve in so many different ways, you don't have to do anything!!! Just take as much time to grieve as you need. Talk to other paople that have been through this same thing. Find a support group. I have had several M/C & I wrote a poem to my angel babies. It was a way for me to say goodbye, and have some kind of closure!! Again, I am truly sorry for you loss, if ever you want to talk to I am here for you!!! (((BUG HUGS))))